"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Preferred contact info to get from girls?

Preferred contact info to get from girls?


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Sam Harlo

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Getting chicks numbers isn't working as well for me as getting their snapchats.

Why?

I think it's because snapchat doesn't preview the message, so girls are forced to open it up and respond then and there before it gets erased...

As opposed to seeing FB message/text message pop up on phone screen, giving them hours to respond/forget about it.

Also, snapchat seems a little more casual/not as intimidating.

This applies to girls you've cold approached/met out btw. Not girls from social circle.

What contact information do you guys prefer to grab? Phone number? Snapchat? Facebook?

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Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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Phone number, but I'm an old guy. I don't do snap chat, instagram or what not. I do facebook but not if I just started dating a girl. I don't give out my facebook lightly. If they don't want to do it my way I move on. There are plenty of women that will.
 

TheProspect

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
 

SmooveMooves

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Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)
Took the words out of my mouth.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sam Harlo

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
Very solid points. Most girls I meet are 18-23, have short attention spans and are usually drunk. Probably snapchat is best!
 

marmel75

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In short, it's irrelevant.
 

bigneil

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Subtitled: OP asked for her phone number and got her Facebook and wonders whether it might be a good thing?
 

old_skoolr

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Phone Number, doesnt matter what generation you are, the implied meaning is the same.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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