"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Preferred contact info to get from girls?

Preferred contact info to get from girls?


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Sam Harlo

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Getting chicks numbers isn't working as well for me as getting their snapchats.

Why?

I think it's because snapchat doesn't preview the message, so girls are forced to open it up and respond then and there before it gets erased...

As opposed to seeing FB message/text message pop up on phone screen, giving them hours to respond/forget about it.

Also, snapchat seems a little more casual/not as intimidating.

This applies to girls you've cold approached/met out btw. Not girls from social circle.

What contact information do you guys prefer to grab? Phone number? Snapchat? Facebook?

Answer in poll below!

Thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dustmuffin

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Phone number, but I'm an old guy. I don't do snap chat, instagram or what not. I do facebook but not if I just started dating a girl. I don't give out my facebook lightly. If they don't want to do it my way I move on. There are plenty of women that will.
 

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
 

SmooveMooves

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Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)
Took the words out of my mouth.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sam Harlo

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
Very solid points. Most girls I meet are 18-23, have short attention spans and are usually drunk. Probably snapchat is best!
 

marmel75

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In short, it's irrelevant.
 

bigneil

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Subtitled: OP asked for her phone number and got her Facebook and wonders whether it might be a good thing?
 

old_skoolr

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Phone Number, doesnt matter what generation you are, the implied meaning is the same.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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