syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Anyone in here from the pre-bible era... ie 3 or 4 years ago. Just wanna see who is still lurking around.
- Adam
- Adam
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pre-Bible Era
- Thread starter syncmaster
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Sync, haven't seen you in the longest time. I came here about 4 years ago, but the bible was around back then I think.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Well my missus of 3 years broke up w/ me so i'm back.
One thing i've noticed though is all these hotshot new guys who "have all the answers" but don't feel like sharing anything. It's always "go read the bible" ... kinda defeats the purpose of a "discussion forum". Ah for the good ol' days.
Lol and how could I forget you Wyldfire... yo're the only girl here... and you're still putting up with us
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Feel free to add me to msn people and I can regale you with the crazy stories i've had over the past 3 years.
Ciao
One thing i've noticed though is all these hotshot new guys who "have all the answers" but don't feel like sharing anything. It's always "go read the bible" ... kinda defeats the purpose of a "discussion forum". Ah for the good ol' days.
Lol and how could I forget you Wyldfire... yo're the only girl here... and you're still putting up with us
.Feel free to add me to msn people and I can regale you with the crazy stories i've had over the past 3 years.
Ciao
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
The forum was beige back then too.
A walk down memory lane...
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000512.html
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001001.html
And something by crowes22 from way back when...
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001473.html
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Wow! No kidding eh?
Remember what it used to look like before that? They changed it to the "beige" look a month after I joined.
I think before that it was black & white.
I still think it looks a TON better back then... the memories.
Remember what it used to look like before that? They changed it to the "beige" look a month after I joined.
I think before that it was black & white.
I still think it looks a TON better back then... the memories.
Yeah, it was black and white I think...
I liked it better back then, too. It wasn't the look so much as the sense of genuine comraderie that existed. There wasn't so much hating and most of the arguing were over ideas and disagreeing with posts instead of the personal insults and attacks and nonsense going on now. It's kinda sad...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
wb sync!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
Last updated: May 30, 2002.
Bet'cha not many of you still had that link.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
... OMG that's gold. I have a pdf version of that. That was the second generation bible. Lorenzo and I put together the first one and then it took off from there. I'm surprised it's still lurking around. I'm sure that version is one of the best (better than todays as well) because it's not corrupted by "know it all'ism" . Wyld was right - no sense of community here anymore.Originally posted by diablo
http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
Last updated: May 30, 2002.
Bet'cha not many of you still had that link.
And hey penkitten
nice to see you too I'm finally seeing people I recognize and that i'm "at home" again
.. back when there were only 30 or so regualrs.syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Oh wow ... the original sosuave.com website with the ugly clashing colors... I miss that so much
Looks like it changed to the current system at the end of oct 2004. Check out some of the original posts from the "ugly" website. Wow. This is surreal.
AH! The old front page!
Theres some other thread floating around here which made mention of it, and i couldn't remember it.
(although i was DEFINENTLY here for it)
looking back at that, I can remember it.
SELF-MASTERY
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wow u guys are ol skool, i was a mere lurker back in the beige days, the forum had more of a mystic feel back then.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.