syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Anyone in here from the pre-bible era... ie 3 or 4 years ago. Just wanna see who is still lurking around.
- Adam
- Adam
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pre-Bible Era
- Thread starter syncmaster
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
The Antichrist_Star
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Sync, haven't seen you in the longest time. I came here about 4 years ago, but the bible was around back then I think.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Well my missus of 3 years broke up w/ me so i'm back.
One thing i've noticed though is all these hotshot new guys who "have all the answers" but don't feel like sharing anything. It's always "go read the bible" ... kinda defeats the purpose of a "discussion forum". Ah for the good ol' days.
Lol and how could I forget you Wyldfire... yo're the only girl here... and you're still putting up with us
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Feel free to add me to msn people and I can regale you with the crazy stories i've had over the past 3 years.
Ciao
One thing i've noticed though is all these hotshot new guys who "have all the answers" but don't feel like sharing anything. It's always "go read the bible" ... kinda defeats the purpose of a "discussion forum". Ah for the good ol' days.
Lol and how could I forget you Wyldfire... yo're the only girl here... and you're still putting up with us
.Feel free to add me to msn people and I can regale you with the crazy stories i've had over the past 3 years.
Ciao
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
The forum was beige back then too.
A walk down memory lane...
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000512.html
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001001.html
And something by crowes22 from way back when...
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001473.html
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Wow! No kidding eh?
Remember what it used to look like before that? They changed it to the "beige" look a month after I joined.
I think before that it was black & white.
I still think it looks a TON better back then... the memories.
Remember what it used to look like before that? They changed it to the "beige" look a month after I joined.
I think before that it was black & white.
I still think it looks a TON better back then... the memories.
Yeah, it was black and white I think...
I liked it better back then, too. It wasn't the look so much as the sense of genuine comraderie that existed. There wasn't so much hating and most of the arguing were over ideas and disagreeing with posts instead of the personal insults and attacks and nonsense going on now. It's kinda sad...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
wb sync!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
Last updated: May 30, 2002.
Bet'cha not many of you still had that link.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
... OMG that's gold. I have a pdf version of that. That was the second generation bible. Lorenzo and I put together the first one and then it took off from there. I'm surprised it's still lurking around. I'm sure that version is one of the best (better than todays as well) because it's not corrupted by "know it all'ism" . Wyld was right - no sense of community here anymore.Originally posted by diablo
http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
Last updated: May 30, 2002.
Bet'cha not many of you still had that link.
And hey penkitten
nice to see you too I'm finally seeing people I recognize and that i'm "at home" again
.. back when there were only 30 or so regualrs.syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Oh wow ... the original sosuave.com website with the ugly clashing colors... I miss that so much
Looks like it changed to the current system at the end of oct 2004. Check out some of the original posts from the "ugly" website. Wow. This is surreal.
AH! The old front page!
Theres some other thread floating around here which made mention of it, and i couldn't remember it.
(although i was DEFINENTLY here for it)
looking back at that, I can remember it.
SELF-MASTERY
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wow u guys are ol skool, i was a mere lurker back in the beige days, the forum had more of a mystic feel back then.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.