Thebestthereeveris
Master Don Juan
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Going to be posting fitness wins and progress here with pics and stats. Follow if youd like.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I benched 455 yesterday but i hit 475. I want to hit 500 end of this year I know I can.Sure, I'm in.
What are your PRs?
What program are you running?
What is your goal and plan to get there?
Full body every day?I benched 455 yesterday but i hit 475. I want to hit 500 end of this year I know I can.
running full body everyday while focusing on a specific muscle group each day.
Lmao full body but I will focus on chest mainly shoulders next etc etc"running full body everyday while focusing on a specific muscle group each day"![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How will you do this while working 7 days a week for at least 14 hours a day? Did you invent a method to create more hours in a day than any other human being in history? If so, please share.Lmao full body but I will focus on chest mainly shoulders next etc etc
Yes I’ll brbHow will you do this while working 7 days a week for at least 14 hours a day? Did you invent a method to create more hours in a day than any other human being in history? If so, please share.
Sounds about right. Clearly you avoided the question I asked meaning I cannot take you seriously.This is how my backs looking. I’m going to absolutely DEMOLISH my goals for 2024
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I ain’t lying lmao I knew I would get pushback but whatever’s just cause your weak ass willl never touch 4 plates when doesn’t mean we are all like youYou bench almost 5 plates on ech side? With that physique? While hitting full body workout every day? Imagine how sad your life is that you have to make up $hit for stranger in the internet.
I don’t need your approval Mr no profile picSounds about right. Clearly you avoided the question I asked meaning I cannot take you seriously.
I don't give approvals, I simply asked a question.I don’t need your approval Mr no profile pic
Look up the Asian dude who benched 410 size doesn’t equal strength. I don’t rly train for gyperteophyI don't give approvals, I simply asked a question.
And if you are going to post a profile pic, make sure it's one that could realistically back up your claims. That one cannot.
One of these things is not like the other.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I’d kms if I can only bench 300 by now. Y’all really don’t. Get it huhI've been around gyms for 40 years now on and off, and I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of men I've actually seen benchpress 500lbs (and that's seen not just claim). In each case, their physique was radically different to yours: more bulky, shorter levers; greater BMI.
It's difficult to tell, but I'd be surprised if you could bench 300lb with your physique - and 300lb is a significant bench BTW once you get past all the hype and lies you hear from bodybuilders in particular. Benching 300lb in true form is not to be sneezed at, especially if you're lean.
I think most of us do get it. That's the issue you are having.I’d kms if I can only bench 300 by now. Y’all really don’t. Get it huh
Kms? You're saying you'd kill yourself if you could 'only' benchpress 300lb?I’d kms if I can only bench 300 by now. Y’all really don’t. Get it huh
I was going to post I’m not here to argue or fight other members just post progress and talk about fitness. Believe or not none of my concern you guys just asked for stats.FWIW OP, I'm willing to entertain that you bench crazy heavy. I've seen crazy things before.
But your overreaction to people saying you can't bench that, is a bit telling tbh. I've had people on reddit claim that I'm just fat when I say my height weight and BF%... I didn't care because, well, I'm not fat. So if you're actually a heavy bencher, just ignore the people that don't believe you.
That being said, I don't care if you bench that heavy or not. I care more about training methods and diet theory.
So how tall are you and how much you weigh?
What program were you running to get your bench so heavy?
How's your squat?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.