"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going to be posting fitness wins and progress here with pics and stats. Follow if youd like.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sure, I'm in.

What are your PRs?
What program are you running?
What is your goal and plan to get there?
I benched 455 yesterday but i hit 475. I want to hit 500 end of this year I know I can.
running full body everyday while focusing on a specific muscle group each day.
 

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"running full body everyday while focusing on a specific muscle group each day" :whistle::ninja:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lmao full body but I will focus on chest mainly shoulders next etc etc
How will you do this while working 7 days a week for at least 14 hours a day? Did you invent a method to create more hours in a day than any other human being in history? If so, please share.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You bench almost 5 plates on ech side? With that physique? While hitting full body workout every day? Imagine how sad your life is that you have to make up $hit for stranger in the internet.
I ain’t lying lmao I knew I would get pushback but whatever’s just cause your weak ass willl never touch 4 plates when doesn’t mean we are all like you
 

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I've been around gyms for 40 years now on and off, and I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of men I've actually seen benchpress 500lbs (and that's seen not just claim). In each case, their physique was radically different to yours: more bulky, shorter levers; greater BMI.

It's difficult to tell, but I'd be surprised if you could bench 300lb with your physique - and 300lb is a significant bench BTW once you get past all the hype and lies you hear from bodybuilders in particular. Benching 300lb in true form is not to be sneezed at, especially if you're lean.
 

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I don’t need your approval Mr no profile pic
I don't give approvals, I simply asked a question.

And if you are going to post a profile pic, make sure it's one that could realistically back up your claims. That one cannot.

One of these things is not like the other.

 

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I don't give approvals, I simply asked a question.

And if you are going to post a profile pic, make sure it's one that could realistically back up your claims. That one cannot.

One of these things is not like the other.

Look up the Asian dude who benched 410 size doesn’t equal strength. I don’t rly train for gyperteophy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been around gyms for 40 years now on and off, and I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of men I've actually seen benchpress 500lbs (and that's seen not just claim). In each case, their physique was radically different to yours: more bulky, shorter levers; greater BMI.

It's difficult to tell, but I'd be surprised if you could bench 300lb with your physique - and 300lb is a significant bench BTW once you get past all the hype and lies you hear from bodybuilders in particular. Benching 300lb in true form is not to be sneezed at, especially if you're lean.
I’d kms if I can only bench 300 by now. Y’all really don’t. Get it huh
 

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FWIW OP, I'm willing to entertain that you bench crazy heavy. I've seen crazy things before.

But your overreaction to people saying you can't bench that, is a bit telling tbh. I've had people on reddit claim that I'm just fat when I say my height weight and BF%... I didn't care because, well, I'm not fat. So if you're actually a heavy bencher, just ignore the people that don't believe you.

That being said, I don't care if you bench that heavy or not. I care more about training methods and diet theory.

So how tall are you and how much you weigh?
What program were you running to get your bench so heavy?
How's your squat?
I was going to post I’m not here to argue or fight other members just post progress and talk about fitness. Believe or not none of my concern you guys just asked for stats.
 

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This will be general progress thread of me. I will be posting wins losses and everything in between. Let’s just go forward 2024. This is it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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