"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah Renaldo, i am so fat.....where are you even getting that from? Now why don't you stop being a coward and post your pic since you feel see free to take pot shots at others. Unlike you, i have nothing to hide....i could care less who sees this.
You aren't obese, but you are fat. You aren't skinny, are you? You aren't built either. Me calling you fat clearly got to you and in your subconscious you know i am right.

You may not care who sees this because you don't care about your privacy and i respect that. However, i do care for my privacy because it is a legitimate concern.

@Cordon: Lol. I think everyone that has some definition and build shaves themselves. It looks a lot better and you can see the definition a lot better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ronaldo7 said:
You aren't obese, but you are fat. You aren't skinny, are you? You aren't built either. Me calling you fat clearly got to you and in your subconscious you know i am right.

You may not care who sees this because you don't care about your privacy and i respect that. However, i do care for my privacy because it is a legitimate concern.

@Cordon: Lol. I think everyone that has some definition and build shaves themselves. It looks a lot better and you can see the definition a lot better.

I'm pretty sure if i told you the color red is red you would say no it is blue.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
You aren't obese, but you are fat. You aren't skinny, are you? You aren't built either. Me calling you fat clearly got to you and in your subconscious you know i am right.

You may not care who sees this because you don't care about your privacy and i respect that. However, i do care for my privacy because it is a legitimate concern.

@Cordon: Lol. I think everyone that has some definition and build shaves themselves. It looks a lot better and you can see the definition a lot better.

I'm pretty sure if i told you the color red is red you would say no it is blue.

edit: my bad for the double post
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He died for preaching the truth. People hate listening to the truth.

Nice trolling tactic here by mentioning Jesus and the truth here when your persona and ideals are the complete opposite of everything he stood for. He was about humility and helping others while your trolling character is all about false bravado helping itself....well played....well played. I think you would do a better overall job of trolling, though, if you toned things down just a bit.
 

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Ronaldo needs to relax and stop passing immediate judgement on others.
 
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zinc4 said:
Nice trolling tactic here by mentioning Jesus and the truth here when your persona and ideals are the complete opposite of everything he stood for. He was about humility and helping others while your trolling character is all about false bravado helping itself....well played....well played. I think you would do a better overall job of trolling, though, if you toned things down just a bit.
Hopefully you didn't run out of breathe. I'd hate myself if i wrote something that got you breathing, heaving, and puffing and short on needing the inhaler.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ronaldo7 said:
Hopefully you didn't run out of breathe. I'd hate myself if i wrote something that got you breathing, heaving, and puffing and short on needing the inhaler.

I'm not a religious fanatic...i just can't help but notice the irony and dry humor in the majority of your posts. In hindsight it's ridiculous to argue with you because it's just giving you want you want. Carry on.
 

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zinc4 said:
I'm not a religious fanatic...i just can't help but notice the irony and dry humor in the majority of your posts. In hindsight it's ridiculous to argue with you because it's just giving you want you want. Carry on.
Certainly. Whatever you do is exactly what he wants. Otherwise how can his truth tremble?
 

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zinc4 said:
I'm not a religious fanatic...i just can't help but notice the irony and dry humor in the majority of your posts. In hindsight it's ridiculous to argue with you because it's just giving you want you want. Carry on.
I'm guessing you ran out of excuses to explain your obesity.
 

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Wow! What happened in here? Turned into a ruffled feather fest. Hahahaha

You would think you guys were fighting over a bunch of chicks or something.

Glad some were brave to post pics. I know I was.

Epi
 

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Ronaldo, where are YOUR pics?

All I ever see you do is judge people in threads and try and come off as some super good looking uber buff bodybuilder. Back your big mouth up or shut the fvk up.

Simple.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope.
 
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Jaylan said:
Ronaldo, where are YOUR pics?

All I ever see you do is judge people in threads and try and come off as some super good looking uber buff bodybuilder. Back your big mouth up or shut the fvk up.

Simple.
If you took the time to read my posts, i think you would comprehend my reason as to not violate my privacy.

I don't try to come off as anything. You give me too many compliments. I approach everything with my usual humble, down-to-earth spirit. I'm flattered you think i come off like that.
 

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Ronaldo if you don't want to post your pics, then that is perfectly fine. No one should feel pressured to do so.

Can you answer me this? Judging from what I have read in some of your previous posts, you are a black/African American guy correct?
 

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cordoncordon said:
Ronaldo if you don't want to post your pics, then that is perfectly fine. No one should feel pressured to do so.

Can you answer me this? Judging from what I have read in some of your previous posts, you are a black/African American guy correct?
:rolleyes:

:nervous:

:crackup:

:eek:

:whistle:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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