"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Post wall 35 and up men dating 18-23 yo olds. How do you do it?

MrWood

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Congrats fine Sir! (I did notice)

How’s your hair?
nearly 100% grey, nearly bald, I shave but rock the stubble up to 1/2inch :)

The problem is self rejection. Most guys on This boards actually reject themselves long before the women reject them. They suffer from an affliction called anti-game.
dont believe in rejection
my ex left me=rejection
date/cold approach = no rejection (its a yes or no, or maybe)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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biggoal

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I dunno...
I'm 53, 5'8 155lb grey goatee mustache, paralyzed arm that flops around... cant lift, cant gym, cant jog, cant yoga, cant samba.
Yet... I date +15yrs younger with great success, flirt with 18-22yo's all the time and score a few 20yo FWB.
Nothing less than HB7+
Had 4 women this year ask me to marry them...

whats y'alls problem?

note: forgot to add... I wear jeans and tshirts exclusively
Wow. Don't take offense, but how is it at your age, disability in one arm and can't workout, yet you can still get high end HB7 on ups who are barely considered adults? OLD?

I do know you don't live in the US. I mean in the US there is no way you'd get that at your age and can't workout and that, UNLESS you have money then that's an whole other ballgame. If you were wealthy you'd still find a gold digger HB.
 

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I probably should make a separate thread about this but it's sorta related. At my part time job I do a couple nights a week there is this really cute HB8.5 chick. The only issue is she's only 17! She's a bit shy but always friendly, and always friendly to me and smiles to me a lot and such and chit chats. I know, she's 17 and no go in my state, BUT my questions is how do you get her interest and sustain it so when she's 18 it's all systems go to move in? I mean can't flirt or anything like that because of the age and would be fired instantly for that, but you know what I mean so she stays friendly and continues to chit chat and show interest in a friendly way.
 

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Dating a 19 yo. (Not a virgin). I’m in my 50’s. Met her on Tinder. I generally date mid/late 20’s. How? I look around 40. Fit and a good face. But short. So IDK.
You met her on Tinder? im curious to see how your profile looks like
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You met her on Tinder? im curious to see how your profile looks like
I deleted my account early September. But I met her on it in May. It had 5 selfies from the past year. And my bio was sparse. I said I was just looking for casual dating. Nothing serious. A Spotify song. Something sexually aggressive from Judas Priest I think (Ram it Down)?
 
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I deleted my account early September. But I met her on it in May. It had 5 selfies from the past year. And my bio was sparse. I said I was just looking for casual dating. Nothing serious. A Spotify song. Something sexually aggressive from Judas Priest I think (Ram it Down)?
Then some on here say having too many selfies and not enough regular pics is bad on OLD. I guess it all depends on the type of OLD platform. A swipe platform like Tinder or BUmble selfies okay more versus match for example.
 
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