"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Post wall 35 and up men dating 18-23 yo olds. How do you do it?

MrWood

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Congrats fine Sir! (I did notice)

How’s your hair?
nearly 100% grey, nearly bald, I shave but rock the stubble up to 1/2inch :)

The problem is self rejection. Most guys on This boards actually reject themselves long before the women reject them. They suffer from an affliction called anti-game.
dont believe in rejection
my ex left me=rejection
date/cold approach = no rejection (its a yes or no, or maybe)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dunno...
I'm 53, 5'8 155lb grey goatee mustache, paralyzed arm that flops around... cant lift, cant gym, cant jog, cant yoga, cant samba.
Yet... I date +15yrs younger with great success, flirt with 18-22yo's all the time and score a few 20yo FWB.
Nothing less than HB7+
Had 4 women this year ask me to marry them...

whats y'alls problem?

note: forgot to add... I wear jeans and tshirts exclusively
Wow. Don't take offense, but how is it at your age, disability in one arm and can't workout, yet you can still get high end HB7 on ups who are barely considered adults? OLD?

I do know you don't live in the US. I mean in the US there is no way you'd get that at your age and can't workout and that, UNLESS you have money then that's an whole other ballgame. If you were wealthy you'd still find a gold digger HB.
 

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I probably should make a separate thread about this but it's sorta related. At my part time job I do a couple nights a week there is this really cute HB8.5 chick. The only issue is she's only 17! She's a bit shy but always friendly, and always friendly to me and smiles to me a lot and such and chit chats. I know, she's 17 and no go in my state, BUT my questions is how do you get her interest and sustain it so when she's 18 it's all systems go to move in? I mean can't flirt or anything like that because of the age and would be fired instantly for that, but you know what I mean so she stays friendly and continues to chit chat and show interest in a friendly way.
 

Solomon

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Dating a 19 yo. (Not a virgin). I’m in my 50’s. Met her on Tinder. I generally date mid/late 20’s. How? I look around 40. Fit and a good face. But short. So IDK.
You met her on Tinder? im curious to see how your profile looks like
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Hamurabimbi

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You met her on Tinder? im curious to see how your profile looks like
I deleted my account early September. But I met her on it in May. It had 5 selfies from the past year. And my bio was sparse. I said I was just looking for casual dating. Nothing serious. A Spotify song. Something sexually aggressive from Judas Priest I think (Ram it Down)?
 
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biggoal

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I deleted my account early September. But I met her on it in May. It had 5 selfies from the past year. And my bio was sparse. I said I was just looking for casual dating. Nothing serious. A Spotify song. Something sexually aggressive from Judas Priest I think (Ram it Down)?
Then some on here say having too many selfies and not enough regular pics is bad on OLD. I guess it all depends on the type of OLD platform. A swipe platform like Tinder or BUmble selfies okay more versus match for example.
 
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