penkitten
Master Don Juan
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I can. And will.penkitten said:you can!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*penkitten said:you can!
bow chicka bow wowbigjohnson said:No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*
I couldn't read any more than that, but I bet it woulda been good for you. *snicker*
joekerr31 said:we're living in the era of the 'brat'
adults are acting like bratty teenagers more and more every day. porn is a great example of that.
women sticking baseball bats up their p*ssy and cussing worse than a trucker is the norm now.