penkitten
Master Don Juan
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I can. And will.penkitten said:you can!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*penkitten said:you can!
bow chicka bow wowbigjohnson said:No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*
I couldn't read any more than that, but I bet it woulda been good for you. *snicker*
joekerr31 said:we're living in the era of the 'brat'
adults are acting like bratty teenagers more and more every day. porn is a great example of that.
women sticking baseball bats up their p*ssy and cussing worse than a trucker is the norm now.