penkitten
Master Don Juan
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I can. And will.penkitten said:you can!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*penkitten said:you can!
bow chicka bow wowbigjohnson said:No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*
I couldn't read any more than that, but I bet it woulda been good for you. *snicker*
joekerr31 said:we're living in the era of the 'brat'
adults are acting like bratty teenagers more and more every day. porn is a great example of that.
women sticking baseball bats up their p*ssy and cussing worse than a trucker is the norm now.