penkitten
Master Don Juan
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
you can!bigjohnson said:I wish I could rep you on that one.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I can. And will.penkitten said:you can!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*penkitten said:you can!
bow chicka bow wowbigjohnson said:No, it says I have to spread .... *blush*
I couldn't read any more than that, but I bet it woulda been good for you. *snicker*
joekerr31 said:we're living in the era of the 'brat'
adults are acting like bratty teenagers more and more every day. porn is a great example of that.
women sticking baseball bats up their p*ssy and cussing worse than a trucker is the norm now.