"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poor women on OLD, what they have to go through to meet a guy worthy of a date

sazc

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Ohhhh! No joke, dead serious. I wasn't 100% sure what @sazc 's avatar was a picture of. My best guess was it was some kind of painting of... Something. Now I see it. It's hair and a set of jugs.
Jugs are so small it's hard to tell right, lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seattle4Life

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I'm getting dates easy on POF & tinder.
Majority of guys don't get much success in first few months. It's like anything in life though, if you stick at it, you will reap the rewards.
Just when you are about to quit something, success is just around the corner.

I have'nt found a girl that can tame me yet though.
What changed after a few months that made you more successful on OLD?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL. You're a moderator. You shouldn't be treating @sazc's pic like a piece of meat. She's probably more than that. ;'p
For some reason this meme came into my mind when I read this ^

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For some reason this meme came into my mind when I read this ^

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It depends, one minute she wants to be taken seriously as a journalist, for you to respect her skills in interviews, story writing, things like that. The next moment, she wants to be a sex object, but only to be ogled by the guys she finds attractive enough or powerful enough to do so. Everyone else doing it is creepy, stalkerish, blah, blah, blah....

Roger Ailes with all kinds of money and ability to put her on the air? Yes, please touch, lick, ogle...

Roger Ailes with no money or power? Ewwwww, he's a gross old white guy, why's he looking at me? I'm not a sex object, I'm a serious journalist.

Hypocritical to the core! Remember that and use that hypocritalness to your advantage. Play on her fears, her insecurities and your power to exact what you want from her.

Dam, one thing, she's married. You imagine seeing your wife doing the pinup thing here? Do you think they argued about it? Do you think he doesn't give a sh*t because he's probably banging something on the side? I mean, how could you be comfortable with your "wife" out hoing it up and pretending she's a sex object?
 

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I've gone on old as a woman,no pic or profile and was sent inundated by ok looking men but they all came across as boring, desperate and unoriginal. Why would you even reply to someone with no pic ffs.
Weirdly when I set my own real profile to men seeking men I had better luck than I did with women. Hot young good looking guys. I could kill it as a gay man. Just a shame I prefer fanny to c*ck. Maybe in my next life...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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