sazc
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Jugs are so small it's hard to tell right, lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Poor women on OLD, what they have to go through to meet a guy worthy of a date
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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Yep
sazc
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I'm currently on the hunt for them now! Im hoping to find them!
RickTheToad
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Seattle4Life
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What changed after a few months that made you more successful on OLD?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sazc
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Lol, they hate me
logicallefty
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It depends, one minute she wants to be taken seriously as a journalist, for you to respect her skills in interviews, story writing, things like that. The next moment, she wants to be a sex object, but only to be ogled by the guys she finds attractive enough or powerful enough to do so. Everyone else doing it is creepy, stalkerish, blah, blah, blah....
Roger Ailes with all kinds of money and ability to put her on the air? Yes, please touch, lick, ogle...
Roger Ailes with no money or power? Ewwwww, he's a gross old white guy, why's he looking at me? I'm not a sex object, I'm a serious journalist.
Hypocritical to the core! Remember that and use that hypocritalness to your advantage. Play on her fears, her insecurities and your power to exact what you want from her.
Dam, one thing, she's married. You imagine seeing your wife doing the pinup thing here? Do you think they argued about it? Do you think he doesn't give a sh*t because he's probably banging something on the side? I mean, how could you be comfortable with your "wife" out hoing it up and pretending she's a sex object?
Shrubber101
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I've gone on old as a woman,no pic or profile and was sent inundated by ok looking men but they all came across as boring, desperate and unoriginal. Why would you even reply to someone with no pic ffs.
Weirdly when I set my own real profile to men seeking men I had better luck than I did with women. Hot young good looking guys. I could kill it as a gay man. Just a shame I prefer fanny to c*ck. Maybe in my next life...
Weirdly when I set my own real profile to men seeking men I had better luck than I did with women. Hot young good looking guys. I could kill it as a gay man. Just a shame I prefer fanny to c*ck. Maybe in my next life...
RickTheToad
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So... That's who @sazc really is... ;'p
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
logicallefty
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You never know with the big scary Internet!