It doesn't seem like many of you have actually read the book of pook, because he certainly embraced nuance when he said you should...
"Forget this webpage with all its wordy text. People who stay here all day are trying to get it PERFECT, and you know what? Perfect is boring. Shake things up in your life. It won’t matter if you know what to do for the 2nd or 3rd date, most people don’t. Do it one at a time."
And when you keep overanalyzing situations, you end up as a herd of sheep...
"And, following him, is a seductionist, stuffed with analyzations and flowing electronic text, bitter that the 'reality' of women seem so 'horrible'. And there
comes a young man who has lost the girl of his dreams, who doesn't realize that it was the dream that made her divine, not her making the dream, and he's green with jealousy, as he doesn't think he'll ever find another woman 'of his dreams'."
But go ahead and reinvent the wheel, so you can recycle self-improvement content with your own personal stamp.