spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJspesmilitis said:Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?
agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscleRaikojo17 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .howardalex said:thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJ
no ground work or anything in kickboxing though, that's mainly for cardio tbh
Ditto. The nicest asses I have ever seen in my life are the sprinters and hurdlers on my college's track and feild team. God, their hamstrings/butt/legs. . .Theres more butt/leg than I know what to do with. Close seconds are vollyball players, and track & feild jumpers. Our school's soccor girls after that.howardalex said:agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscle![]()
'fraid not, I went out with a girl who played capoeira for a bit, best relationship I ever had tbhspesmilitis said:Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .
ewwwww celluliteDrum&Bass said:
Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.rakishness said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That booty should win some award. DAYYUUM!!!Cash said:Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.
So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.Michele said:god damn thats disgusting...
no offense... but whoever says "DAAAYYUUMMM" to fat ass chicks with fat ass legs... but skinny upper bodies... ... well you lost my respect.
cottage cheese legs are disgusting, fat girls are disgusting, FAT ASSES are disgusting.
and don't get me wrong...
skinny girls (skinny people) are disgusting, muscular girls are disgusting also.
i liie "normal" girls... which is in between thin and curvy.
i like lean, thin, curvy girls.
i was about to puke seeing those fat chicks. that's so ****ing disgusting.
yeah in my neighborhood a girl with a fattie walks by... but a girl who's actually in shape jogs by.rakishness said:So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.