spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJspesmilitis said:Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?
agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscleRaikojo17 said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .howardalex said:thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJ
no ground work or anything in kickboxing though, that's mainly for cardio tbh
Ditto. The nicest asses I have ever seen in my life are the sprinters and hurdlers on my college's track and feild team. God, their hamstrings/butt/legs. . .Theres more butt/leg than I know what to do with. Close seconds are vollyball players, and track & feild jumpers. Our school's soccor girls after that.howardalex said:agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscle![]()
'fraid not, I went out with a girl who played capoeira for a bit, best relationship I ever had tbhspesmilitis said:Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .
ewwwww celluliteDrum&Bass said:
Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.rakishness said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That booty should win some award. DAYYUUM!!!Cash said:Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.
So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.Michele said:god damn thats disgusting...
no offense... but whoever says "DAAAYYUUMMM" to fat ass chicks with fat ass legs... but skinny upper bodies... ... well you lost my respect.
cottage cheese legs are disgusting, fat girls are disgusting, FAT ASSES are disgusting.
and don't get me wrong...
skinny girls (skinny people) are disgusting, muscular girls are disgusting also.
i liie "normal" girls... which is in between thin and curvy.
i like lean, thin, curvy girls.
i was about to puke seeing those fat chicks. that's so ****ing disgusting.
yeah in my neighborhood a girl with a fattie walks by... but a girl who's actually in shape jogs by.rakishness said:So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.