spesmilitis
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Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?howardalex said:I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJspesmilitis said:Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?
agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscleRaikojo17 said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .howardalex said:thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJ
no ground work or anything in kickboxing though, that's mainly for cardio tbh
Ditto. The nicest asses I have ever seen in my life are the sprinters and hurdlers on my college's track and feild team. God, their hamstrings/butt/legs. . .Theres more butt/leg than I know what to do with. Close seconds are vollyball players, and track & feild jumpers. Our school's soccor girls after that.howardalex said:agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscle![]()
'fraid not, I went out with a girl who played capoeira for a bit, best relationship I ever had tbhspesmilitis said:Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .
ewwwww celluliteDrum&Bass said:
Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.rakishness said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That booty should win some award. DAYYUUM!!!Cash said:Now i love phatties too, but thats just silly.
So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.Michele said:god damn thats disgusting...
no offense... but whoever says "DAAAYYUUMMM" to fat ass chicks with fat ass legs... but skinny upper bodies... ... well you lost my respect.
cottage cheese legs are disgusting, fat girls are disgusting, FAT ASSES are disgusting.
and don't get me wrong...
skinny girls (skinny people) are disgusting, muscular girls are disgusting also.
i liie "normal" girls... which is in between thin and curvy.
i like lean, thin, curvy girls.
i was about to puke seeing those fat chicks. that's so ****ing disgusting.
yeah in my neighborhood a girl with a fattie walks by... but a girl who's actually in shape jogs by.rakishness said:So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.