"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poll: Your favorite body type for girls: curvy, thin, or athletic

What is your favorite body type

  • Curvy

    Votes: 30 51.7%

  • Thin

    Votes: 11 19.0%

  • Athletic

    Votes: 14 24.1%

  • Other (explain)

    Votes: 3 5.2%
  • Total voters
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I like a girl who can grapple with me...if she wins, boioioing :D
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Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can't stand super skinny women. If your thigh is smaller than my bicep there is something wrong. Curvy women all the way for me
 
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spesmilitis said:
Now thats what I'm talking about! You do BJJ, judo, wrestling, or sambo?
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thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJ

no ground work or anything in kickboxing though, that's mainly for cardio tbh
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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howardalex said:
thai boxing, kickboxing and BJJ

no ground work or anything in kickboxing though, that's mainly for cardio tbh
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Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .

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agreed she is the sex - however, the nicest bums come on the athletic girls IMO - she can pack back and still have lean muscle ;)
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Ditto. The nicest asses I have ever seen in my life are the sprinters and hurdlers on my college's track and feild team. God, their hamstrings/butt/legs. . .Theres more butt/leg than I know what to do with. Close seconds are vollyball players, and track & feild jumpers. Our school's soccor girls after that.
 
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Word up, I do BJJ. Ever dated a BJJ girl? I've considered it, but I have a reluctancy to date girls who i'm forced to see often, like girls who are in the same dorm/clubs/major as me. Great for avoiding drama. I guess thats the catch-22 of dating a BJJ girl. Maybe I'll look for a grappler at a judo club. . . .
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'fraid not, I went out with a girl who played capoeira for a bit, best relationship I ever had tbh

have you looked at rugby/lax girls? they do it for me too ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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god damn thats disgusting...

no offense... but whoever says "DAAAYYUUMMM" to fat ass chicks with fat ass legs... but skinny upper bodies... ... well you lost my respect.

cottage cheese legs are disgusting, fat girls are disgusting, FAT ASSES are disgusting.

and don't get me wrong...

skinny girls (skinny people) are disgusting, muscular girls are disgusting also.

i liie "normal" girls... which is in between thin and curvy.

i like lean, thin, curvy girls.

i was about to puke seeing those fat chicks. that's so ****ing disgusting.
 
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Michele said:
god damn thats disgusting...

no offense... but whoever says "DAAAYYUUMMM" to fat ass chicks with fat ass legs... but skinny upper bodies... ... well you lost my respect.

cottage cheese legs are disgusting, fat girls are disgusting, FAT ASSES are disgusting.

and don't get me wrong...

skinny girls (skinny people) are disgusting, muscular girls are disgusting also.

i liie "normal" girls... which is in between thin and curvy.

i like lean, thin, curvy girls.

i was about to puke seeing those fat chicks. that's so ****ing disgusting.
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So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.
 
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So what your saying is you think Vida guerra, Beyonce and J lo are disgusting? BS!!!! Of course you don't!!! Because I presume you are heterosexual. PHATTIES are SEXY!!!!!! MEN LOVE THEM. Just go outside and you'll see what I'm talking about. A gurl with a phattie walks by. Everybody stares.
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yeah in my neighborhood a girl with a fattie walks by... but a girl who's actually in shape jogs by.

those girls you listed are okay, only because they arent semi-fat stomached like the rest of the girls you're posting. they are celebrities and actually work out to keep their curves (thin stomach)... they aren't your everyday fat-ass.

thats great for evolutions sake though. you and your offspring will die off, people with the bodyweight they were supposed to have stay alive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Vida guerra is more then just okay. She has a big ass and thin waist. I don't know any red blooded male who doesn't find her body sexy. Phatty asses are the best. BTW....I don't mean fat women with big guts and arms. I'm taking about thick/voluptuous woman like the ones I listed.
 
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Great thread!
 
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Im one of those who voted other. I like small chicks, I dont mean underage, like small figure, they can be tall and small at the same time. Nice small and cute. Average titties, and average butt size, but small and cute!
 
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