"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Poll: Should SoSuave Lift its Bans?

Should Sosuave lift its censorships?

  • No, I like my posts free of swearing and political banter

    Votes: 9 25.0%
  • Lift the motherfuvcking swear ban!

    Votes: 11 30.6%
  • Lift the political ban, you nazi bastards.

    Votes: 2 5.6%
  • Lift both bans so we can talk sh!t about politics

    Votes: 14 38.9%

  • Total voters
    36

NINJA PIMP

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I know this is probably a huge waste of time, but I'm curious how many of you are with me.

Should we be allowed to talk like men here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ace of Flames

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I've always thought the swear ban was kind of unnecessary. Anyone who comes to this site looking for advice on girls or sex or life is old enough to be cussing anyway. I don't really see who we're protecting, if that is the intent of the ban.

If the intent is to stifle flaming, I suppose I can understand, but if the swearing ever got that bad, you could just ban the offenders. And as Mctwist just pointed out, everyone goes around the filter anyway.
 

Ever onward

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We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Ever onward said:
We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
 

penkitten

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Ever onward said:
If people get out of hand, then ban em.
well they did that too and then everyone hated everyone and it was one big old soap opera dramatic time here at sosuave.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ValleyDJing

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I want the swearing ban lifted. I don't want the politics ban lifted. Politics are ****ing stupid I don't care about them.
 

speakeasy

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I think in the "anything else" forum, it should be anything goes for sure. I don't see why have a forum called "anything else" and then stop people from talking about whatever they want in it. It makes sense not to post politics in the tips forum or health forum, but don't see why banning any certain topic is necessarily in this forum. As for the ban on certain words, I've never understood why we have that. It's not like small kids are reading this site or it has to be "family frendly" or something.
 

NINJA PIMP

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TheVirtualMind said:
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
 
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NINJA PIMP said:
T PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
PR L never flamed anyone ... the homos flamed him>>>
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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NINJA PIMP said:
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall

haha this is true. Capi Crimini anyone?

lil fuvker he was a nussiance... kinda miss that kid though he was funny at the same time

I agree with you on lifting both bans.

The political arguments amuse me :D
 

spesmilitis

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How about we have a flaming thread and the regular anything else thread? The flaming thread can have all the political threads.
 

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I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
 

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WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.

Good luck with that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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iqqi said:
The best flame thread of all time: flame thread
I remember that thread, it was when I first joined - this was the last I heard of Starman. The flame war went on for five months!!

What happened to crotch sniffer? My "The Natural Order Of Things" thread was inspired by his "Sexuality is the duality that creates life" comment.

THERE WAS ANOTHER FLAME THREAD THAT WENT oN FOR 22 pages!! Those were THE days when men could be men!!!!
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
Fvcking child.

WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
Brother Wescott is absolutely right. If I want to debate on what a complete fvcking idiot Bill O'Reilly and that horsefaced cvnt Anne Coulter are I'll go to an appropriate forum. :moon:
 

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Have a political issues forum, and remove posts that get too political elsewhere.

If someone gets out of hand too much, warn 'em, and if they don't straighten out, ban 'em.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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