NINJA PIMP
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I know this is probably a huge waste of time, but I'm curious how many of you are with me.
Should we be allowed to talk like men here?
Should we be allowed to talk like men here?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Poll: Should SoSuave Lift its Bans?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ace of Flames
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I've always thought the swear ban was kind of unnecessary. Anyone who comes to this site looking for advice on girls or sex or life is old enough to be cussing anyway. I don't really see who we're protecting, if that is the intent of the ban.
If the intent is to stifle flaming, I suppose I can understand, but if the swearing ever got that bad, you could just ban the offenders. And as Mctwist just pointed out, everyone goes around the filter anyway.
If the intent is to stifle flaming, I suppose I can understand, but if the swearing ever got that bad, you could just ban the offenders. And as Mctwist just pointed out, everyone goes around the filter anyway.
Ever onward
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We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
We did that before...Ever onward said:
Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well they did that too and then everyone hated everyone and it was one big old soap opera dramatic time here at sosuave.Ever onward said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I want the swearing ban lifted. I don't want the politics ban lifted. Politics are ****ing stupid I don't care about them.
I think in the "anything else" forum, it should be anything goes for sure. I don't see why have a forum called "anything else" and then stop people from talking about whatever they want in it. It makes sense not to post politics in the tips forum or health forum, but don't see why banning any certain topic is necessarily in this forum. As for the ban on certain words, I've never understood why we have that. It's not like small kids are reading this site or it has to be "family frendly" or something.
NINJA PIMP
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This was true, what 2 years ago?TheVirtualMind said:
I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.
Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
Last Man Standing
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PR L never flamed anyone ... the homos flamed him>>>NINJA PIMP said:
NINJA PIMP
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What ever you say, PRLLast Man Standing said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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NINJA PIMP said:
haha this is true. Capi Crimini anyone?
lil fuvker he was a nussiance... kinda miss that kid though he was funny at the same time
I agree with you on lifting both bans.
The political arguments amuse me
spesmilitis
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How about we have a flaming thread and the regular anything else thread? The flaming thread can have all the political threads.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".
It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bonez said:
Good luck with that.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
iqqi
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Last Man Standing
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I remember that thread, it was when I first joined - this was the last I heard of Starman. The flame war went on for five months!!iqqi said:
What happened to crotch sniffer? My "The Natural Order Of Things" thread was inspired by his "Sexuality is the duality that creates life" comment.
THERE WAS ANOTHER FLAME THREAD THAT WENT oN FOR 22 pages!! Those were THE days when men could be men!!!!
iqqi
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I personally think that was Senor Fingz alter ego. The wit!Last Man Standing said:
besides that, he was banned. he joined the bandom. lol.
KarmaSutra
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Fvcking child.Bonez said:
Brother Wescott is absolutely right. If I want to debate on what a complete fvcking idiot Bill O'Reilly and that horsefaced cvnt Anne Coulter are I'll go to an appropriate forum. :moon:WesCottII said:
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Have a political issues forum, and remove posts that get too political elsewhere.
If someone gets out of hand too much, warn 'em, and if they don't straighten out, ban 'em.
If someone gets out of hand too much, warn 'em, and if they don't straighten out, ban 'em.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.