“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Poll: Should SoSuave Lift its Bans?

Should Sosuave lift its censorships?

  • No, I like my posts free of swearing and political banter

    Votes: 9 25.0%
  • Lift the motherfuvcking swear ban!

    Votes: 11 30.6%
  • Lift the political ban, you nazi bastards.

    Votes: 2 5.6%
  • Lift both bans so we can talk sh!t about politics

    Votes: 14 38.9%

  • Total voters
    36

NINJA PIMP

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I know this is probably a huge waste of time, but I'm curious how many of you are with me.

Should we be allowed to talk like men here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ace of Flames

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I've always thought the swear ban was kind of unnecessary. Anyone who comes to this site looking for advice on girls or sex or life is old enough to be cussing anyway. I don't really see who we're protecting, if that is the intent of the ban.

If the intent is to stifle flaming, I suppose I can understand, but if the swearing ever got that bad, you could just ban the offenders. And as Mctwist just pointed out, everyone goes around the filter anyway.
 

Ever onward

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We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Ever onward said:
We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
 

penkitten

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Ever onward said:
If people get out of hand, then ban em.
well they did that too and then everyone hated everyone and it was one big old soap opera dramatic time here at sosuave.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ValleyDJing

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I want the swearing ban lifted. I don't want the politics ban lifted. Politics are ****ing stupid I don't care about them.
 

speakeasy

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I think in the "anything else" forum, it should be anything goes for sure. I don't see why have a forum called "anything else" and then stop people from talking about whatever they want in it. It makes sense not to post politics in the tips forum or health forum, but don't see why banning any certain topic is necessarily in this forum. As for the ban on certain words, I've never understood why we have that. It's not like small kids are reading this site or it has to be "family frendly" or something.
 

NINJA PIMP

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TheVirtualMind said:
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
 
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NINJA PIMP said:
T PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
PR L never flamed anyone ... the homos flamed him>>>
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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NINJA PIMP said:
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall

haha this is true. Capi Crimini anyone?

lil fuvker he was a nussiance... kinda miss that kid though he was funny at the same time

I agree with you on lifting both bans.

The political arguments amuse me :D
 

spesmilitis

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How about we have a flaming thread and the regular anything else thread? The flaming thread can have all the political threads.
 

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I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
 

Bonez

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WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.

Good luck with that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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iqqi said:
The best flame thread of all time: flame thread
I remember that thread, it was when I first joined - this was the last I heard of Starman. The flame war went on for five months!!

What happened to crotch sniffer? My "The Natural Order Of Things" thread was inspired by his "Sexuality is the duality that creates life" comment.

THERE WAS ANOTHER FLAME THREAD THAT WENT oN FOR 22 pages!! Those were THE days when men could be men!!!!
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
Fvcking child.

WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
Brother Wescott is absolutely right. If I want to debate on what a complete fvcking idiot Bill O'Reilly and that horsefaced cvnt Anne Coulter are I'll go to an appropriate forum. :moon:
 

Bonhomme

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Have a political issues forum, and remove posts that get too political elsewhere.

If someone gets out of hand too much, warn 'em, and if they don't straighten out, ban 'em.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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