“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Poll: Should SoSuave Lift its Bans?

Should Sosuave lift its censorships?

  • No, I like my posts free of swearing and political banter

    Votes: 9 25.0%
  • Lift the motherfuvcking swear ban!

    Votes: 11 30.6%
  • Lift the political ban, you nazi bastards.

    Votes: 2 5.6%
  • Lift both bans so we can talk sh!t about politics

    Votes: 14 38.9%

  • Total voters
    36

NINJA PIMP

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I know this is probably a huge waste of time, but I'm curious how many of you are with me.

Should we be allowed to talk like men here?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames

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I've always thought the swear ban was kind of unnecessary. Anyone who comes to this site looking for advice on girls or sex or life is old enough to be cussing anyway. I don't really see who we're protecting, if that is the intent of the ban.

If the intent is to stifle flaming, I suppose I can understand, but if the swearing ever got that bad, you could just ban the offenders. And as Mctwist just pointed out, everyone goes around the filter anyway.
 

Ever onward

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We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Ever onward said:
We should be able to talk about politics. If people get out of hand, then ban em.
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
 

penkitten

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Ever onward said:
If people get out of hand, then ban em.
well they did that too and then everyone hated everyone and it was one big old soap opera dramatic time here at sosuave.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ValleyDJing

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I want the swearing ban lifted. I don't want the politics ban lifted. Politics are ****ing stupid I don't care about them.
 

speakeasy

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I think in the "anything else" forum, it should be anything goes for sure. I don't see why have a forum called "anything else" and then stop people from talking about whatever they want in it. It makes sense not to post politics in the tips forum or health forum, but don't see why banning any certain topic is necessarily in this forum. As for the ban on certain words, I've never understood why we have that. It's not like small kids are reading this site or it has to be "family frendly" or something.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
We did that before...

Problem is, it REALLY got out of hand, even going into other forums.
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
 
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NINJA PIMP said:
T PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall
PR L never flamed anyone ... the homos flamed him>>>
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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NINJA PIMP said:
This was true, what 2 years ago?

I will take your word for it since you are a mod and see more threads than I do, but within the last year I have not seen one political thread get out of hand. Sure some guys get passionate, but that's to be expected. I'm actually quite impressed with how the fellas debate here.

Sosuave needs to get over the trauma inflicted by the Demons, Player Supremes, PRL's etc etc. Its a brand new day yall

haha this is true. Capi Crimini anyone?

lil fuvker he was a nussiance... kinda miss that kid though he was funny at the same time

I agree with you on lifting both bans.

The political arguments amuse me :D
 

spesmilitis

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How about we have a flaming thread and the regular anything else thread? The flaming thread can have all the political threads.
 

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I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
 

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WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.

Good luck with that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iqqi said:
The best flame thread of all time: flame thread
I remember that thread, it was when I first joined - this was the last I heard of Starman. The flame war went on for five months!!

What happened to crotch sniffer? My "The Natural Order Of Things" thread was inspired by his "Sexuality is the duality that creates life" comment.

THERE WAS ANOTHER FLAME THREAD THAT WENT oN FOR 22 pages!! Those were THE days when men could be men!!!!
 

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Bonez said:
I'll go and ****ing swear whereever the **** I want to swear though.
Fvcking child.

WesCottII said:
I don't come to a Seduction forum for politics. I don't go to a politics forum to talk "game".

It has no use here IMO, and the ban should stay.
Brother Wescott is absolutely right. If I want to debate on what a complete fvcking idiot Bill O'Reilly and that horsefaced cvnt Anne Coulter are I'll go to an appropriate forum. :moon:
 

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Have a political issues forum, and remove posts that get too political elsewhere.

If someone gets out of hand too much, warn 'em, and if they don't straighten out, ban 'em.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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