mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Caliper pinch measurements are good.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Please Critique my Physique (6 months after hiring Physical Trainer)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
guru1000
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5% bf is irrelevant for the DJ: At this bf level, the body appears too striated and vascular, which turns women off. Any for any mature man over 35, there goes his face, as bone and fat loss have already melted off gradually year by year irrespective of bf %.
The ideal DJ fighting bf is 10-12%, with lean, dry, proportional aesthetics.
The ideal DJ fighting bf is 10-12%, with lean, dry, proportional aesthetics.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Plus you can't tell any difference between 7% and 10% under clothes. 10% is a good target. If you can see your abs your likely lean enough.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Is this while flexing or while relaxed? Some people say they got a 6 pack but it only shows when they flex so I'm not sure how accurate that is in saying they are lean enough.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Should see it lightly without flexing and flexing you should see something you like to look at. Might as well.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.