"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes, you can see he picked up a lot of weight. It could have been from stress or whatever, it's why I never will understand why ANY guy on a self-development forum would downplay the importance of fixing your "looks"...which includes of course joining a workout program.

Working out and eating right at least for the vast majority of the month (you can throw in some cheat days in there) is important for basic overall health. Also making sure to do other things to keep yourself healthy, which includes not screwing these chicks raw.

Death makes us keep everything in proper perspective.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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P.S. mentioned regularly he had sarcoidosis and that's why his fitness slipped.

Lesson here is and I think he'd agree/would say this - you have to enjoy what time you do have and not take things so seriously.... A lot of things really at the end of the day/some of the hangups people post about....don't mean ****. When you are on your death bed you won't be thinking about or care that x,y,z rejected you.
 

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Yes, you can see he picked up a lot of weight. It could have been from stress or whatever, it's why I never will understand why ANY guy on a self-development forum would downplay the importance of fixing your "looks"...which includes of course joining a workout program.

Working out and eating right at least for the vast majority of the month (you can throw in some cheat days in there) is important for basic overall health. Also making sure to do other things to keep yourself healthy, which includes not screwing these chicks raw.

Death makes us keep everything in proper perspective.
As a guy who has picked up weight himself sometimes life kicks your a$$ you of all people should know this

depression is not a joke and for some people it's not easy as just hitting the gym, I was in a dark place last year when I lost my job and for 2 months i didn't do shyt and packed on 30 pounds

It's not easy but now I'm working on losing that weight
 

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As a guy who has picked up weight himself sometimes life kicks your a$$ you of all people should know this

depression is not a joke and for some people it's not easy as just hitting the gym, I was in a dark place last year when I lost my job and for 2 months i didn't do shyt and packed on 30 pounds

It's not easy but now I'm working on losing that weight
I'm here if you need help Bro. Hit me up in PM.
 

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As a guy who has picked up weight himself sometimes life kicks your a$$ you of all people should know this

depression is not a joke and for some people it's not easy as just hitting the gym, I was in a dark place last year when I lost my job and for 2 months i didn't do shyt and packed on 30 pounds

It's not easy but now I'm working on losing that weight
If you drink alcohol that was more than half the weight gain.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For those of you who been coming to this site for a long, Player Supreme passed away. He used to be a regular on here before having his own podcast/youtube channel where he gave advice to thousands of men for many years. Didn't follow him as much the last few years but I enjoyed his advice from time to time.
I haven't been on this site in a while but I had to pay my respects. RIP, Player Supreme. He gave a lot of sharp, realistic, and helpful advice, which I'm sure the newbies can find if they run a search. He will be missed.
 

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I haven't been on this site in a while but I had to pay my respects. RIP, Player Supreme. He gave a lot of sharp, realistic, and helpful advice, which I'm sure the newbies can find if they run a search. He will be missed.
He knew what he was doing and understood the system.
 

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these black dating coaches he refers to "women" as black girls.

black girls different from white/asian..
 

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What if in his last two years when he was doing all that coughing during his speeches that he knew he'd be dead Soon?

What if his choice of a wife after banging "hot girls" in the clubs was an example?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He was a great man. I remember his name being thrown around when I first registered on here
 

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life is short. really sorry to hear this. RIP Chris.
 

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I haven't been on here in years. I remember him though. RIP
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes I heard.

I felt devastated when I first heard, and I'm still upset about it.

Player Supreme taught me so much, and taught me so many things that my own father didnt. I started listening to him when I was 15.

Since my own father was never that close to me, I saw player supreme as a second father figure.

His content and advice was top notch and the real deal. He never succumbed to teaching mainstream pua in order to make more money, or try to attract customers with beautiful lies or sweet fantasies. It was the harsh truth of game and dating, and anyone that couldn't handle it he banished from his channel.

I feel sad and regretful for not joining his forum and contacting him when I could. I postponed it so long the man passed away.

RIP Player Supreme. I'll always remember the advice you taught me.
Supreme clowned me for 15 minutes on oneof his vids. It was great advice.
 

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He dedicated an entire podcast to his dismay at me. Called me "Kahma-Dooda".

Altogether not a bad guy but he and I didn't see eye-to-eye on the paradigm of relationships and seduction.
 

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He dedicated an entire podcast to his dismay at me. Called me "Kahma-Dooda".

Altogether not a bad guy but he and I didn't see eye-to-eye on the paradigm of relationships and seduction.
He and "Reese" clowned me for 15 minutes on one of his. And he had two hours of content of other men in similar situations. It helped get me out of a unsuccessful pattern and bettering my position.
 

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R.I.P. Player Supreme
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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