"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Player Supreme passed away (Former member here)

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For those of you who been coming to this site for a long, Player Supreme passed away. He used to be a regular on here before having his own podcast/youtube channel where he gave advice to thousands of men for many years. Didn't follow him as much the last few years but I enjoyed his advice from time to time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For those of you who been coming to this site for a long, Player Supreme passed away. He used to be a regular on here before having his own podcast/youtube channel where he gave advice to thousands of men for many years. Didn't follow him as much the last few years but I enjoyed his advice from time to time.
He said something to me that helped me... Man that sucks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think this was his last video. I used to have some major debates with this guy, but damn, I didn't know he was sick? Does anybody know what happened? Cause of death? I'm seeing notes about him having a heart attack, is that true?

R.I.P......man I swear life is short, please enjoy EVERY DAY gentlemen while you have it.
 

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Rip :(

Man players podcasts he used to drop back in 06 07 08 where pure HEAT. I learned so much game and attitude from PS. Man this really is a sad day. Player actually tried to build his own community..the player supreme show..the zenmack forums..then on to youtube. It really breaks my heart hearing about this. He went too young. Rest in peace player supreme aka chris arnette you were a good man and really tried to help out us young guys trying to come up in the game and in life.
 

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I think this was his last video. I used to have some major debates with this guy, but damn, I didn't know he was sick? Does anybody know what happened? Cause of death? I'm seeing notes about him having a heart attack, is that true?

R.I.P......man I swear life is short, please enjoy EVERY DAY gentlemen while you have it.
10/1/2017 was my birthday
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rip :(

Man players podcasts he used to drop back in 06 07 08 where pure HEAT. I learned so much game and attitude from PS. Man this really is a sad day. Player actually tried to build his own community..the player supreme show..the zenmack forums..then on to youtube. It really breaks my heart hearing about this. He went too young. Rest in peace player supreme aka chris arnette you were a good man and really tried to help out us young guys trying to come up in the game and in life.
I remember he said he had to take several showers a day because of all the sex he was having lol. There hasn't been many like him over the years.
 

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I remember he said he had to take several showers a day because of all the sex he was having lol. There hasn't been many like him over the years.
He had gfs and lovers. He said if he didn't need a emotional connection he could've phvcked thousands. Because of his need for emotional connection it was only 100's. His advise on manhood and how the game and h0es work is top notch.
 

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What happened?
Heart attack could be stress or him being overweight

RIP, Supreme and I had our "beefs" back in the day when I first got on the site, and honestly it was never that serious even though he roasted me on his podcast show and I roasted him back with My uncle T in my sevenload channel. Shyt was mad long ago

We squashed the shyt finally this summer via DM's but it was never serious. Supreme has always been a tad controversial but damn he was young I don't even think he was 60 crazy.
 

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Do any of his threads or posts still exist? I remember him talking about being banned. I remember them being "classic" material. Maybe we can make a thread on the "the best of" or something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't find his stuff. Didn't his SoSuave name have the words player and supreme in it? Maybe he had his account completely deleted.
 

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Heart attack could be stress or him being overweight
That's a pity as he was working to address those issues.


Fellas, get a full medical before starting any fitness program if you've not being working out in a while.
Remember, the ticker is the most important muscle.

Anyway, he'd pm'd Reykhel to say that Reykhel had driven more traffic to his youtube channels and website.......You'd think he
would have thanked Reykhel......but no, he said he'd set it up like that. Reykhel was not sure whether to believe him or not but
you've got to admire the Machiavellian approach. Reykhel wanted to believe him.

He suggested to Reykhel that he was branching out into fitness programs similar to beach body insanity, but it seems that he
may have pushed it too far...


Oh well, every dog has its day
 

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Yes I heard.

I felt devastated when I first heard, and I'm still upset about it.

Player Supreme taught me so much, and taught me so many things that my own father didnt. I started listening to him when I was 15.

Since my own father was never that close to me, I saw player supreme as a second father figure.

His content and advice was top notch and the real deal. He never succumbed to teaching mainstream pua in order to make more money, or try to attract customers with beautiful lies or sweet fantasies. It was the harsh truth of game and dating, and anyone that couldn't handle it he banished from his channel.

I feel sad and regretful for not joining his forum and contacting him when I could. I postponed it so long the man passed away.

RIP Player Supreme. I'll always remember the advice you taught me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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