"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Platonic friendship
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
MacAvoy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheChicGeek
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Somebody forgot to tell the 10 guys that answered they can be only friends with the hot girl and NOT want more that this isn't the hot girl asking them and they can be truthful.Pakwah said:
Reminds me of the joke, 97% of guys jerk off, the other 3% don't have arms.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
can you be friends with a hot girl?
The fact that you notice shes hot, already means that youve thought about ****ing her.
Now your screwed if you become her friend, because the sex thing is already out there, and its gunna come up again and again.
MacAvoy
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So you can have attractive female friends as long as you're not too close to them.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
i have plenty of attractive females as friends..what disinterests me in being intiment with them is probably some incompatible personality feat..so i just be their friend
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
tr0ublemaker said:
yeah your point?
A) The fact that you described them as attractive gets me. If you find her attractive you must want to or have wanted to **** her at some point?tr0ublemaker said:
B) and you can challenge this theory if you want:
The only reason guys talk to an attractive girl is because we want to have sex with them, which brings me round to the first point- you want to poke them and not be friends- the only reason you are friends with them now is because your attempts at phucking them failed.
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skip2mylou781
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a)social proof when you and your "friend" go clubbing
b)friends with benefits
yea, that pretty much sums it up
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Have you washed it properly? Either way, this isn't the right place to talk about that. Go to a chicks site.tr0ublemaker said:
The point is, why would we want to be their friend?
To watch your favorite series (Sex and the City) and go shopping? Or how about talking about those men that hurt their feelings and are insecure because they date other women.
"Yeah, he's a Jerk, you can do so much better!"
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.