She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Consensus was they SUCK unless theyre fvcking you.Following up on a theme that emerged from an earlier thread I posted a few days back, what’s the consensus here on having (attractive) platonic female friends? Good for social proof? Practicing game on? Thoughts?
Yea fvck that bytch. She was getting a power rush off rejecting you.I had a friend that I used to ****. After I called it quits we still hung out but she ****blocked me every single time so I dropped her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's assuming she's not doing the same thing and once you start doing that, it won't be long before she'll start doing it. So it'll be a wash and then she'll be entertaining other guys, so it won't be long before she's hopping on that cawk.What about for dread game once you’re in a relationship?
“Hey babe, I’m going to be running late tonight... stopping for a drink with <hot female friend> after work
Yea, the social proof thing is mostly useless I'd say. You're either f*cking them or you're not. Who wants to have a drama filled, selfish, self-serving, "friend" who will throw you overboard at a moment's notice? Sounds like too much work. "Look who I'm friends with, she's hot!" Lol, not worth it.Consensus was they SUCK unless theyre fvcking you.
"Hes a great guy but not my type"
"Hes nice but i wouldn't fvck him"
You dont want that type of attention.
You need to be fvcking or have fvcked the women who are providing social proof. They need to represent your c0ck, to say "yes I'd **** him, I did fvck him".
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Have you heard the term "boner killers"? Its real.Yea, the social proof thing is mostly useless I'd say. You're either f*cking them or you're not. Who wants to have a drama filled, selfish, self-serving, "friend" who will throw you overboard at a moment's notice? Sounds like too much work. "Look who I'm friends with, she's hot!" Lol, not worth it.
I live with one, believe me, I know they're real.Have you heard the term "boner killers"? Its real.
So these "hot" popularity girls wholl happily be your friend while they pursue guys more near the apex. They feed you no sexual energy. Actually mqny times they TOLERATE your presense as if doing you a favor by being seen by you. Did you know in their mindset their male friends (orbiters) are one step ahead of a fully gay male? It was explained by a female...I live with one, believe me, I know they're real.
Funny, on the open market, my value is way above hers. I make tons of dough, stay in reasonably good shape, I'd be living the f*cking high life, banging as many chicks as I could get my d*ck in if I didn't have that anchor around my neck.So these "hot" popularity girls wholl happily be your friend while they pursue guys more near the apex. They feed you no sexual energy. Actually mqny times they TOLERATE your presense as if doing you a favor by being seen by you. Did you know in their mindset their male friends (orbiters) are one step ahead of a fully gay male? It was explained by a female...
Thats the energy you bask in around her. She shows thru her actions your not on her level.
Can't do it, it's a bad look. If you have a platonic female friend then it's obvious she's decided she won't f*ck you, and that's a terrible look to other females.Following up on a theme that emerged from an earlier thread I posted a few days back, what’s the consensus here on having (attractive) platonic female friends? Good for social proof? Practicing game on? Thoughts?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How about some men? Are you scared of them?I had the same question... sounds like everyone's saying it's not good. IDK what to do then about having a bigger social circle or one at all
Yeah I never thought about this in-depth until recently.Can't do it, it's a bad look. If you have a platonic female friend then it's obvious she's decided she won't f*ck you, and that's a terrible look to other females.
You get it. But her sorority or feminism or whatever lets her degrade you like this.Funny, on the open market, my value is way above hers. I make tons of dough, stay in reasonably good shape, I'd be living the f*cking high life, banging as many chicks as I could get my d*ck in if I didn't have that anchor around my neck.
what lets her degrade me like this is the heavy excise tax and loss of my interaction with my kids that the matriarchical court system would enforce upon me with no pre-nup.You get it. But her sorority or feminism or whatever lets her degrade you like this.
"The system". Old school man would be so busy with his mistress he wouldnt notice his wife...what lets her degrade me like this is the heavy excise tax and loss of my interaction with my kids that the matriarchical court system would enforce upon me with no pre-nup.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.