You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Consensus was they SUCK unless theyre fvcking you.Following up on a theme that emerged from an earlier thread I posted a few days back, what’s the consensus here on having (attractive) platonic female friends? Good for social proof? Practicing game on? Thoughts?
Yea fvck that bytch. She was getting a power rush off rejecting you.I had a friend that I used to ****. After I called it quits we still hung out but she ****blocked me every single time so I dropped her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That's assuming she's not doing the same thing and once you start doing that, it won't be long before she'll start doing it. So it'll be a wash and then she'll be entertaining other guys, so it won't be long before she's hopping on that cawk.What about for dread game once you’re in a relationship?
“Hey babe, I’m going to be running late tonight... stopping for a drink with <hot female friend> after work
Yea, the social proof thing is mostly useless I'd say. You're either f*cking them or you're not. Who wants to have a drama filled, selfish, self-serving, "friend" who will throw you overboard at a moment's notice? Sounds like too much work. "Look who I'm friends with, she's hot!" Lol, not worth it.Consensus was they SUCK unless theyre fvcking you.
"Hes a great guy but not my type"
"Hes nice but i wouldn't fvck him"
You dont want that type of attention.
You need to be fvcking or have fvcked the women who are providing social proof. They need to represent your c0ck, to say "yes I'd **** him, I did fvck him".
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Have you heard the term "boner killers"? Its real.Yea, the social proof thing is mostly useless I'd say. You're either f*cking them or you're not. Who wants to have a drama filled, selfish, self-serving, "friend" who will throw you overboard at a moment's notice? Sounds like too much work. "Look who I'm friends with, she's hot!" Lol, not worth it.
I live with one, believe me, I know they're real.Have you heard the term "boner killers"? Its real.
So these "hot" popularity girls wholl happily be your friend while they pursue guys more near the apex. They feed you no sexual energy. Actually mqny times they TOLERATE your presense as if doing you a favor by being seen by you. Did you know in their mindset their male friends (orbiters) are one step ahead of a fully gay male? It was explained by a female...I live with one, believe me, I know they're real.
Funny, on the open market, my value is way above hers. I make tons of dough, stay in reasonably good shape, I'd be living the f*cking high life, banging as many chicks as I could get my d*ck in if I didn't have that anchor around my neck.So these "hot" popularity girls wholl happily be your friend while they pursue guys more near the apex. They feed you no sexual energy. Actually mqny times they TOLERATE your presense as if doing you a favor by being seen by you. Did you know in their mindset their male friends (orbiters) are one step ahead of a fully gay male? It was explained by a female...
Thats the energy you bask in around her. She shows thru her actions your not on her level.
Can't do it, it's a bad look. If you have a platonic female friend then it's obvious she's decided she won't f*ck you, and that's a terrible look to other females.Following up on a theme that emerged from an earlier thread I posted a few days back, what’s the consensus here on having (attractive) platonic female friends? Good for social proof? Practicing game on? Thoughts?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How about some men? Are you scared of them?I had the same question... sounds like everyone's saying it's not good. IDK what to do then about having a bigger social circle or one at all
Yeah I never thought about this in-depth until recently.Can't do it, it's a bad look. If you have a platonic female friend then it's obvious she's decided she won't f*ck you, and that's a terrible look to other females.
You get it. But her sorority or feminism or whatever lets her degrade you like this.Funny, on the open market, my value is way above hers. I make tons of dough, stay in reasonably good shape, I'd be living the f*cking high life, banging as many chicks as I could get my d*ck in if I didn't have that anchor around my neck.
what lets her degrade me like this is the heavy excise tax and loss of my interaction with my kids that the matriarchical court system would enforce upon me with no pre-nup.You get it. But her sorority or feminism or whatever lets her degrade you like this.
"The system". Old school man would be so busy with his mistress he wouldnt notice his wife...what lets her degrade me like this is the heavy excise tax and loss of my interaction with my kids that the matriarchical court system would enforce upon me with no pre-nup.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.