"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Platonic female friends
- Thread starter bacchus
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Consensus was they SUCK unless theyre fvcking you.
"Hes a great guy but not my type"
"Hes nice but i wouldn't fvck him"
You dont want that type of attention.
You need to be fvcking or have fvcked the women who are providing social proof. They need to represent your c0ck, to say "yes I'd **** him, I did fvck him".
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yea fvck that bytch. She was getting a power rush off rejecting you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Mike32ct
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It can help such a guy get comfortable around women. He won’t score with her. But if he can lose the awkwardness around women by hanging out with her, it can help his game a bit.
That's assuming she's not doing the same thing and once you start doing that, it won't be long before she'll start doing it. So it'll be a wash and then she'll be entertaining other guys, so it won't be long before she's hopping on that cawk.
Yea, the social proof thing is mostly useless I'd say. You're either f*cking them or you're not. Who wants to have a drama filled, selfish, self-serving, "friend" who will throw you overboard at a moment's notice? Sounds like too much work. "Look who I'm friends with, she's hot!" Lol, not worth it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Have you heard the term "boner killers"? Its real.
I live with one, believe me, I know they're real.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So these "hot" popularity girls wholl happily be your friend while they pursue guys more near the apex. They feed you no sexual energy. Actually mqny times they TOLERATE your presense as if doing you a favor by being seen by you. Did you know in their mindset their male friends (orbiters) are one step ahead of a fully gay male? It was explained by a female...
Thats the energy you bask in around her. She shows thru her actions your not on her level.
Funny, on the open market, my value is way above hers. I make tons of dough, stay in reasonably good shape, I'd be living the f*cking high life, banging as many chicks as I could get my d*ck in if I didn't have that anchor around my neck.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Can't do it, it's a bad look. If you have a platonic female friend then it's obvious she's decided she won't f*ck you, and that's a terrible look to other females.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
speed dawg
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How about some men? Are you scared of them?
Mike32ct
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Yeah I never thought about this in-depth until recently.
I’ve been out enough times where I can easily tell by the body language that she isn’t WITH a certain guy. It’s probably fair to assume that other women can tell too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You get it. But her sorority or feminism or whatever lets her degrade you like this.
what lets her degrade me like this is the heavy excise tax and loss of my interaction with my kids that the matriarchical court system would enforce upon me with no pre-nup.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"The system". Old school man would be so busy with his mistress he wouldnt notice his wife...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.