"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plate asked me if I am seeing other women

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hal9000

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When I was spinning most of them enjoyed hearing about whatever kinky stuff I had gotten into with other women. I wouldn't just start talking about it or anything but they would frequently ask about my recent dates and if I had any wild stories to tell. I was running in the swingers crowd though so that probably isn't the case for vanilla women.
 

darksprezzatura

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Digging that line about being married w kids.

Gonna use that one.

When someone asks me, I reply:

Today? Yeah you're the 8th date
 

darksprezzatura

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Early? You’ve been banging this girl for 4 months. Of course she’s going to press for a relationship. I don’t know what some of you guys expect out of women.
I've been sleeping with girls since years now and they never bring up relationship talks.

They know I'll never be relationship material.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LucianoM

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I've been sleeping with girls since years now and they never bring up relationship talks.

They know I'll never be relationship material.
Its hard to transition yourself from a fvckboy to relationship material. Im trying to make that change but i honestly dont know how. The vibes i give off come off as fvckboy cuz thats whay ive been all my life. And when i try to be romantic its just doesnt come out right
 

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Its hard to transition yourself from a fvckboy to relationship material. Im trying to make that change but i honestly dont know how. The vibes i give off come off as fvckboy cuz thats whay ive been all my life. And when i try to be romantic its just doesnt come out right
Your situation is delicate and needs to be done gradually.

tbh I don't know exactly what you should do for sure, but I would suggest to gradually take her out on dates after I've banged her, like something that she knows you put a little thought into, but you have to do this in a way that does not cause her to lose respect for you.
 
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