To begin I'm not complaining well maybe a little bit because this situation is frustrating. I think I know what I will do just want some advice. So my baby mama has a friend I think is cute and whatever. I was on her fb making comments about how decent she looks and my baby mama got mad and like she's feeling some type of way whatever the hell that means. Anyway I asked her on her wall to hook me up with the girl. And the girl was like no cuz she love my baby mama or whatever. This upsets me because 1 baby mama says she wants to get back with me. Which will never ever ever ever happen. 2 she had sex with my ex best friend. 3 get over I don't want you. Or really your friend I just want to have a good ass time. I know I'm just gonna fall back on all this because im a boss but. Damn to top that off they had a talk. About how she feel about me and blah blah ima fall back and let them talk while I continue to boss up !!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Petty or what?
- Thread starter bigwuz
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
By 'baby mama' you mean your girl or your mother?
She's the mother of my youngest son. We are not together.
dustmuffin
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Why wernt you a little smarter about it. Should have done it covertly instead of posting on fb.
Cuz I really don't care nor do I really want the girl. I kind of knew she was gonna say that cuz females do and it made it obvious that baby mama still had feelings for me my baby mama has a girlfriend she should of told her she could have me or xyz but I'll just back up because even though I'm not having sex I still feel like a boss or king
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
parkthebus
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Youll never get anywhere with any woman by proposing a get together with her on fb unless you're a social king.
That's exactly the point ;-) if I liked her I wouldn't ask my bm to hook me up with her I'm just going a little crazy talking a lot of crap cuz I know she's interested
I don't think people always understand the concept of satire. I intentionally wrote what I did to stir **** up I knew she would say naw and I knew they had a talk about not to mention me and the girl was already flirting and still do but my baby mama told her she had a kid with me and her feelings about me blah blah blah. To reiterate I'm just stirring things up because it's funny to me
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You think people come here for a joke aye? GTFO!!!! If you are being satirical why do you care what this board thinks. You are petty.