To begin I'm not complaining well maybe a little bit because this situation is frustrating. I think I know what I will do just want some advice. So my baby mama has a friend I think is cute and whatever. I was on her fb making comments about how decent she looks and my baby mama got mad and like she's feeling some type of way whatever the hell that means. Anyway I asked her on her wall to hook me up with the girl. And the girl was like no cuz she love my baby mama or whatever. This upsets me because 1 baby mama says she wants to get back with me. Which will never ever ever ever happen. 2 she had sex with my ex best friend. 3 get over I don't want you. Or really your friend I just want to have a good ass time. I know I'm just gonna fall back on all this because im a boss but. Damn to top that off they had a talk. About how she feel about me and blah blah ima fall back and let them talk while I continue to boss up !!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Petty or what?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
By 'baby mama' you mean your girl or your mother?
She's the mother of my youngest son. We are not together.
dustmuffin
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Why wernt you a little smarter about it. Should have done it covertly instead of posting on fb.
Cuz I really don't care nor do I really want the girl. I kind of knew she was gonna say that cuz females do and it made it obvious that baby mama still had feelings for me my baby mama has a girlfriend she should of told her she could have me or xyz but I'll just back up because even though I'm not having sex I still feel like a boss or king
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
parkthebus
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Youll never get anywhere with any woman by proposing a get together with her on fb unless you're a social king.
That's exactly the point ;-) if I liked her I wouldn't ask my bm to hook me up with her I'm just going a little crazy talking a lot of crap cuz I know she's interested
I don't think people always understand the concept of satire. I intentionally wrote what I did to stir **** up I knew she would say naw and I knew they had a talk about not to mention me and the girl was already flirting and still do but my baby mama told her she had a kid with me and her feelings about me blah blah blah. To reiterate I'm just stirring things up because it's funny to me
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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You think people come here for a joke aye? GTFO!!!! If you are being satirical why do you care what this board thinks. You are petty.