To begin I'm not complaining well maybe a little bit because this situation is frustrating. I think I know what I will do just want some advice. So my baby mama has a friend I think is cute and whatever. I was on her fb making comments about how decent she looks and my baby mama got mad and like she's feeling some type of way whatever the hell that means. Anyway I asked her on her wall to hook me up with the girl. And the girl was like no cuz she love my baby mama or whatever. This upsets me because 1 baby mama says she wants to get back with me. Which will never ever ever ever happen. 2 she had sex with my ex best friend. 3 get over I don't want you. Or really your friend I just want to have a good ass time. I know I'm just gonna fall back on all this because im a boss but. Damn to top that off they had a talk. About how she feel about me and blah blah ima fall back and let them talk while I continue to boss up !!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Petty or what?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
By 'baby mama' you mean your girl or your mother?
She's the mother of my youngest son. We are not together.
dustmuffin
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Why wernt you a little smarter about it. Should have done it covertly instead of posting on fb.
Cuz I really don't care nor do I really want the girl. I kind of knew she was gonna say that cuz females do and it made it obvious that baby mama still had feelings for me my baby mama has a girlfriend she should of told her she could have me or xyz but I'll just back up because even though I'm not having sex I still feel like a boss or king
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
parkthebus
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Youll never get anywhere with any woman by proposing a get together with her on fb unless you're a social king.
That's exactly the point ;-) if I liked her I wouldn't ask my bm to hook me up with her I'm just going a little crazy talking a lot of crap cuz I know she's interested
I don't think people always understand the concept of satire. I intentionally wrote what I did to stir **** up I knew she would say naw and I knew they had a talk about not to mention me and the girl was already flirting and still do but my baby mama told her she had a kid with me and her feelings about me blah blah blah. To reiterate I'm just stirring things up because it's funny to me
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
grayclif
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You think people come here for a joke aye? GTFO!!!! If you are being satirical why do you care what this board thinks. You are petty.