"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pete Davidson now banging Emily Ratajkowski...dude is on a roll...

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Davidson is banging one hottie after another...

Him getting positive pub from dating Kardashian really helping him out...

But how long before his neediness ruins another one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And an particularly impressive penis by all accounts.
 

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Both are on the rebound from failed relationships. This will end well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pete Davidson proved the mere exposure effect/propinquity theory I have been talking about for years now
 

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Pete Davidson proved the mere exposure effect/propinquity theory I have been talking about for years now
by exposure you mean banging a hot woman will bring more hot woman?
 

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Women are attracted to men who are desired by other hot women, so if you walk into a bar with a hot woman in hand. Other women will be more attracted to you.
that is kind old, there is also the whole if in a dry spell take a woman have a good sex with her and she will tell her friends, then you are gold, taht is all been told for decades, even before I found this site
 

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1.) She's always liked ugly guys, look at her past BF's.
2.) Reminds me of Lyle Lovett effect that Julia Roberts did back in the 90's -- date ugly guy and get a lot of press.
3.) IMO she's trying to get more fame. Pete already has press from Kim so it will catapult her fame.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She went on a few dates with Brad Pitt earlier this year. There was even a thread on it in early October. She's using her dating life to keep her name relevant.

 

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by exposure you mean banging a hot woman will bring more hot woman?
My daughter claimed her 2 friends fancied me the other night, she was loving the fact her dad is desired, and we were all playful about it. however by the end of the evening on her whatsapp group chat all the other girls fancied me.

female nature pre selection.
 

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My daughter claimed her 2 friends fancied me the other night, she was loving the fact her dad is desired, and we were all playful about it. however by the end of the evening on her whatsapp group chat all the other girls fancied me.

female nature pre selection.
That could get kinda weird because you KNOW they are going to try and get with you so one of them can be the first and then brag to the others...
 

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She went on a few dates with Brad Pitt earlier this year. There was even a thread on it in early October. She's using her dating life to keep her name relevant.

I wonder if chicks that score a date with Pitt realize "I better give him the best seks of his life to keep him around".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wonder how many of these women are lining up because they want to see what it's like to fvck a dude with a porn star sized c0ck(9+ inches) knowing it might be the largest one they ever get a chance to fvck/suck?

Is curiosity about that type really a thing for women?

Like a guy that might be too big for her to handle or fit in her mouth but she wants to try and see if she can do it?

Or fantasies about him being too big and hurting her but he won't stop and forces her to take it all?

@catsmeow2 @BeExcellent @LiveYourDream
 
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I wonder how many of these women are lining up because they want to see what it's like to fvck a dude with a porn star sized c0ck(9+ inches) knowing it might be the largest one they ever get a chance to fvck/suck?

Is curiosity about that type really a thing for women?

Like a guy that might be too big for her to handle or fit in her mouth but she wants to try and see if she can do it?

Or fantasies about him being too big and hurting her but he won't stop and forces her to take it all?

@catsmeow2 @BeExcellent @LiveYourDream
If that was the case, don't you think that actual male porn stars would be making a good living satisfying "curious" women? I've never heard of it being a thing so I guess there's your answer.
 

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If that was the case, don't you think that actual male porn stars would be making a good living satisfying "curious" women? I've never heard of it being a thing so I guess there's your answer.
I don't think it means they aren't curious, it's just that women don't expect to pay for sex. They don't have to. I know as a man, I find the idea of paying for sex as a little humiliating, I imagine it's a thousand times worse for women.
 

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Hmmmm. I’ve never thought about it that way really as a woman. Advantages & disadvantages. There is such a thing as too big to be comfortable, but that varies because just as penis size and breast size varies, so does vagina size. What you want is a good fit. The vagina is muscular and can accommodate various sizes but some are more compatible than others.

If you love your man? You love his equipment and you adjust as needed. I’ve never been a girl that was into ONS or STR situations, so I’ve never been into a man out of curiosity or *just* due to his penis. That’s not typically how normal women think.

I will say I have been blessed to have relationships with men are…well…quite blessed.

So I don’t see this as a novelty (shrugs).

Don’t get me wrong it’s a nice to have.
 

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I’ve never been into a man out of curiosity or *just* due to his penis. That’s not typically how normal women think.

I will say I have been blessed to have relationships with men are…well…quite blessed.

So I don’t see this as a novelty (shrugs).

Don’t get me wrong it’s a nice to have.
Size queens may not be normal, but there are enough of them out there. If word gets out about a man having a big penis, he will get the attention of size queens.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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