Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pete Davidson now banging Emily Ratajkowski...dude is on a roll...

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Davidson is banging one hottie after another...

Him getting positive pub from dating Kardashian really helping him out...

But how long before his neediness ruins another one?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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And an particularly impressive penis by all accounts.
 

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Both are on the rebound from failed relationships. This will end well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pete Davidson proved the mere exposure effect/propinquity theory I have been talking about for years now
 

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Pete Davidson proved the mere exposure effect/propinquity theory I have been talking about for years now
by exposure you mean banging a hot woman will bring more hot woman?
 

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Women are attracted to men who are desired by other hot women, so if you walk into a bar with a hot woman in hand. Other women will be more attracted to you.
that is kind old, there is also the whole if in a dry spell take a woman have a good sex with her and she will tell her friends, then you are gold, taht is all been told for decades, even before I found this site
 

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1.) She's always liked ugly guys, look at her past BF's.
2.) Reminds me of Lyle Lovett effect that Julia Roberts did back in the 90's -- date ugly guy and get a lot of press.
3.) IMO she's trying to get more fame. Pete already has press from Kim so it will catapult her fame.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She went on a few dates with Brad Pitt earlier this year. There was even a thread on it in early October. She's using her dating life to keep her name relevant.

 

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by exposure you mean banging a hot woman will bring more hot woman?
My daughter claimed her 2 friends fancied me the other night, she was loving the fact her dad is desired, and we were all playful about it. however by the end of the evening on her whatsapp group chat all the other girls fancied me.

female nature pre selection.
 

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My daughter claimed her 2 friends fancied me the other night, she was loving the fact her dad is desired, and we were all playful about it. however by the end of the evening on her whatsapp group chat all the other girls fancied me.

female nature pre selection.
That could get kinda weird because you KNOW they are going to try and get with you so one of them can be the first and then brag to the others...
 

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She went on a few dates with Brad Pitt earlier this year. There was even a thread on it in early October. She's using her dating life to keep her name relevant.

I wonder if chicks that score a date with Pitt realize "I better give him the best seks of his life to keep him around".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wonder how many of these women are lining up because they want to see what it's like to fvck a dude with a porn star sized c0ck(9+ inches) knowing it might be the largest one they ever get a chance to fvck/suck?

Is curiosity about that type really a thing for women?

Like a guy that might be too big for her to handle or fit in her mouth but she wants to try and see if she can do it?

Or fantasies about him being too big and hurting her but he won't stop and forces her to take it all?

@catsmeow2 @BeExcellent @LiveYourDream
 
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I wonder how many of these women are lining up because they want to see what it's like to fvck a dude with a porn star sized c0ck(9+ inches) knowing it might be the largest one they ever get a chance to fvck/suck?

Is curiosity about that type really a thing for women?

Like a guy that might be too big for her to handle or fit in her mouth but she wants to try and see if she can do it?

Or fantasies about him being too big and hurting her but he won't stop and forces her to take it all?

@catsmeow2 @BeExcellent @LiveYourDream
If that was the case, don't you think that actual male porn stars would be making a good living satisfying "curious" women? I've never heard of it being a thing so I guess there's your answer.
 

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If that was the case, don't you think that actual male porn stars would be making a good living satisfying "curious" women? I've never heard of it being a thing so I guess there's your answer.
I don't think it means they aren't curious, it's just that women don't expect to pay for sex. They don't have to. I know as a man, I find the idea of paying for sex as a little humiliating, I imagine it's a thousand times worse for women.
 

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Hmmmm. I’ve never thought about it that way really as a woman. Advantages & disadvantages. There is such a thing as too big to be comfortable, but that varies because just as penis size and breast size varies, so does vagina size. What you want is a good fit. The vagina is muscular and can accommodate various sizes but some are more compatible than others.

If you love your man? You love his equipment and you adjust as needed. I’ve never been a girl that was into ONS or STR situations, so I’ve never been into a man out of curiosity or *just* due to his penis. That’s not typically how normal women think.

I will say I have been blessed to have relationships with men are…well…quite blessed.

So I don’t see this as a novelty (shrugs).

Don’t get me wrong it’s a nice to have.
 

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I’ve never been into a man out of curiosity or *just* due to his penis. That’s not typically how normal women think.

I will say I have been blessed to have relationships with men are…well…quite blessed.

So I don’t see this as a novelty (shrugs).

Don’t get me wrong it’s a nice to have.
Size queens may not be normal, but there are enough of them out there. If word gets out about a man having a big penis, he will get the attention of size queens.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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