"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sometimes couldn´t keep it up when using condoms so I no longer use them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
 

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So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
 

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Had the same problem .. I missed out on banging some hot girls because of it .. finally had enough and got some Cialis to get the confidence back. Tried Viagra too but one 5mg dose of Cialis seems to last 2-3 days
That's not ideal bro.
 

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Found this thread at a good time too. Went out with a cute girl just the other day, we went back to my place and...nothing. I couldn't get it up. I figure it has to be mental because I had no problems a couple of weeks ago with a ONS. But because I have a habit of letting these issues get to my head, maybe I should order something to help until I hit my groove.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
 

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This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
You must make sure that you don't let any woman or anyone else to drop your sex drive. Several other qualities tie to the sex drive which will get dragged down with it. This is a quality in a man that needs to be taken care of.
 

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I was checking on Yohimbe and Goat Weed, both are illegal here in germany. I'll try Maca. Has anyone experience with it?
 
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