Doctor Europeo
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I sometimes couldn´t keep it up when using condoms so I no longer use them
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Performance Anxiety
- Thread starter GearsGod310
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
DEEZEDBRAH
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That's not ideal bro.
The LadyKiller
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Found this thread at a good time too. Went out with a cute girl just the other day, we went back to my place and...nothing. I couldn't get it up. I figure it has to be mental because I had no problems a couple of weeks ago with a ONS. But because I have a habit of letting these issues get to my head, maybe I should order something to help until I hit my groove.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You must make sure that you don't let any woman or anyone else to drop your sex drive. Several other qualities tie to the sex drive which will get dragged down with it. This is a quality in a man that needs to be taken care of.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You need sex from someone who desires you inside.