"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I sometimes couldn´t keep it up when using condoms so I no longer use them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
 

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So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
 

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Had the same problem .. I missed out on banging some hot girls because of it .. finally had enough and got some Cialis to get the confidence back. Tried Viagra too but one 5mg dose of Cialis seems to last 2-3 days
That's not ideal bro.
 

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Found this thread at a good time too. Went out with a cute girl just the other day, we went back to my place and...nothing. I couldn't get it up. I figure it has to be mental because I had no problems a couple of weeks ago with a ONS. But because I have a habit of letting these issues get to my head, maybe I should order something to help until I hit my groove.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
 

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This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
You must make sure that you don't let any woman or anyone else to drop your sex drive. Several other qualities tie to the sex drive which will get dragged down with it. This is a quality in a man that needs to be taken care of.
 

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I was checking on Yohimbe and Goat Weed, both are illegal here in germany. I'll try Maca. Has anyone experience with it?
 
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