Doctor Europeo
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I sometimes couldn´t keep it up when using condoms so I no longer use them
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Performance Anxiety
- Thread starter GearsGod310
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So she‘s here at my place. I‘m really attracted to her, we have a good connection. The moment she sensed what I‘m up to, her clothes were off. I‘m on 25mg sildenafil, can‘t get it up. Didn‘t see that coming... I‘m feeling little bit at loss
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Cause your thinking about it. Let her give you some head.
DEEZEDBRAH
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That's not ideal bro.
The LadyKiller
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Found this thread at a good time too. Went out with a cute girl just the other day, we went back to my place and...nothing. I couldn't get it up. I figure it has to be mental because I had no problems a couple of weeks ago with a ONS. But because I have a habit of letting these issues get to my head, maybe I should order something to help until I hit my groove.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This was also really difficult... However, this problem only persits fo a month now. I won't let it get too far in my mind and go on with excercising, diet and I'm going to try some of the suggested suplements.
That the pills didn't work was very strange. My head was red like a tomato...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You must make sure that you don't let any woman or anyone else to drop your sex drive. Several other qualities tie to the sex drive which will get dragged down with it. This is a quality in a man that needs to be taken care of.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You need sex from someone who desires you inside.