"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre ugly...go away. Seeing as youre 33, you should probably go get a job or jack off a squirrel, which ever you prefer.
You're ugly!:box:I am looking for a job but I don't seem to get lucky lately.

slitherjef said:
Seems to me there is something funny about that photo...
Like its a bit dated or something???
It is true, the photo is from my university index but I hope you like it.

Lord Shinra said:
The one thats currently is posted up looks very 1990s.
Dates from 1992.
 

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cyberlady said:
Maybe I should look for money, then?

Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.

Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.

Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
 

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VashStampede said:
Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.

Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.

Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
For what reason? I will not do anything without reason. Not looks, not money, what then? I am fun to be around too! I could make you fell alive, good to be yourself.

Is the guy in my mind a figment of my imagination, doesn't he exist? :confused: Isn't life a fairytale? Doesn't happily ever afters realistic? Is the reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days? Are they in honeymoon phase? Why things would not be as romantic after a year? You must be unhappily married because you reason like one. Marriage should not be boring. It is not ment to be. You are married to the wrong woman that is all. If you change your life partner things would get better
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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