"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre ugly...go away. Seeing as youre 33, you should probably go get a job or jack off a squirrel, which ever you prefer.
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You're ugly!:box:I am looking for a job but I don't seem to get lucky lately.

slitherjef said:
Seems to me there is something funny about that photo...
Like its a bit dated or something???
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It is true, the photo is from my university index but I hope you like it.

Lord Shinra said:
The one thats currently is posted up looks very 1990s.
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Dates from 1992.
 
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cyberlady said:
Maybe I should look for money, then?
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Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.

Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.

Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
 
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Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.

Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.

Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
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For what reason? I will not do anything without reason. Not looks, not money, what then? I am fun to be around too! I could make you fell alive, good to be yourself.

Is the guy in my mind a figment of my imagination, doesn't he exist? :confused: Isn't life a fairytale? Doesn't happily ever afters realistic? Is the reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days? Are they in honeymoon phase? Why things would not be as romantic after a year? You must be unhappily married because you reason like one. Marriage should not be boring. It is not ment to be. You are married to the wrong woman that is all. If you change your life partner things would get better
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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