Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
The one thats currently is posted up looks very 1990s.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pepe Le Pew
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cyberlady
Don Juan
You're ugly!:box:I am looking for a job but I don't seem to get lucky lately.oakraiderz2 said:
It is true, the photo is from my university index but I hope you like it.slitherjef said:
Dates from 1992.Lord Shinra said:
VashStampede
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cyberlady said:
Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.
Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.
Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
cyberlady
Don Juan
For what reason? I will not do anything without reason. Not looks, not money, what then? I am fun to be around too! I could make you fell alive, good to be yourself.VashStampede said:
Is the guy in my mind a figment of my imagination, doesn't he exist?
Isn't life a fairytale? Doesn't happily ever afters realistic? Is the reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days? Are they in honeymoon phase? Why things would not be as romantic after a year? You must be unhappily married because you reason like one. Marriage should not be boring. It is not ment to be. You are married to the wrong woman that is all. If you change your life partner things would get betterVashStampede
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cyberlady
Don Juan
You are troll:box:VashStampede said:
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