Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
The one thats currently is posted up looks very 1990s.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pepe Le Pew
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
cyberlady
Don Juan
You're ugly!:box:I am looking for a job but I don't seem to get lucky lately.oakraiderz2 said:
It is true, the photo is from my university index but I hope you like it.slitherjef said:
Dates from 1992.Lord Shinra said:
VashStampede
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cyberlady said:
Money fades too. Money and looks are just bonuses on the side. You need to be attracted to a person, yes, but attraction is also emphasized by personality. People who are fun to be around become more attractive over time.
Maybe you should just look for someone who makes you feel alive, someone who makes you feel good to be yourself.
Seems to me you blow guys off because they don't fit the image in your mind of the kind of guy you want. The guy in your mind is a figment of your imagination, he doesn't exist. Life is not a fairytale. Happily ever afters are not realistic. The reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days. They are in honeymoon phase. Things would not be as romantic after a year. I dont believe that woman find it so hard to figure out that the prince charming story will never happen. You should drop your expectations. Expectations are a very bad thing :nono:
cyberlady
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For what reason? I will not do anything without reason. Not looks, not money, what then? I am fun to be around too! I could make you fell alive, good to be yourself.VashStampede said:
Is the guy in my mind a figment of my imagination, doesn't he exist?
Isn't life a fairytale? Doesn't happily ever afters realistic? Is the reason "Titanic" and "Romeo and Juliet" are so romantic is because its about people who fall inlove over a few days? Are they in honeymoon phase? Why things would not be as romantic after a year? You must be unhappily married because you reason like one. Marriage should not be boring. It is not ment to be. You are married to the wrong woman that is all. If you change your life partner things would get betterVashStampede
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
cyberlady
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You are troll:box:VashStampede said:
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