mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Unhappy is one thing, those situations can become dangerous.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Pep talk needed - GF cheated
- Thread starter BJP1991
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheNewStyle123
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Oh dude.. it's BAD. That just scratches the surface. Objectively, from what he has described, this girl is clearly manipulating him and he is beginning to believe it was HIS fault. My friend did nothing. She suspected he was cheating on her (he wasn't' and proved he wasn't) after kicking him out of her apartment (where he was living) on Christmas eve. My friend's mother also passed away 1 month prior to this.
This woman is a cold biitch. If I continued to describe the things she has said and done to him your head would explode with anger for him. I don't want to detract from OPs post though.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He should leave. It sounds like a high tension environment. Some men end up hurting someone or themselves. Also because SHE CURRENTLY DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HIM she could end up hurting him. In the least she will be damaging his life as much as she can without killing him.
TheNewStyle123
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I agree man. When he talks about her to me he openly admits to knowing she's being hot/cold and he will even call her a biitch and other names. I literally asked him "____, are you happy? If not, why the fuuck are you still with her?"
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yea we know better. Any of us guys who hung around in similar situations backed ourselves up more and more the longer we stayed.