"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PE problem

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
I guess your penis is really attracted to the feel of a few more lbs. I guess I can understand a chubby lady, by why a chubby and unattractive lady?
 

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Could it be you dont give a ****? like if its an ogre you dont care and dont feel the need to last`?
 

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Could it be you dont give a ****? like if its an ogre you dont care and dont feel the need to last`?
I dont know, it feels like with uglier women, i get more anxiety since i get kind of disgusted at myself, with pretty girls i get more into the small details of sex, like smells, her appearence, noises, things like that.
 

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Could be psychological.You want attractive women to think you can bang them for hours so you last longer. The complete opposite with unattractive women, orgasm as fast you can, you could care less if they think you are a one minute man. By orgasming so quickly, your body is telling you to hurry up and get these fatties out of here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Could be psychological.You want attractive women to think you can bang them for hours so you last longer. The complete opposite with unattractive women, orgasm as fast you can, you could care less if they think you are a one minute man. By orgasming so quickly, your body is telling you to hurry up and get these fatties out of here.
Probably, i usually dont even try a second attempt cause the post ejaculatory regret and disgust is so big.
 

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I dont know, it feels like with uglier women, i get more anxiety since i get kind of disgusted at myself, with pretty girls i get more into the small details of sex, like smells, her appearence, noises, things like that.
Maybe you come faster exactly because you're disgusted? You're doing something you shouldn't do, it's dirtier.
 

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Same. It goes beyond unattractive girls. Girls that have low IL seem to last average.

It’s not studied, but I reckon it has something to do with feromones.

Bottom line, nothing wrong with you.
 

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The great part is that you can completely control when or if you bust a nut. I may even argue that it is 90% mental.

You have to train yourself to last longer,and there certainly are ways.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
Not sure if it’s been sent already. But this could be a low to Testosterone issue. PE was not one of my issues but it is definitely a symptom for low T. I got on injections two months ago and I feel great. You should have your blood work checked
 

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Not sure if it’s been sent already. But this could be a low to Testosterone issue. PE was not one of my issues but it is definitely a symptom for low T. I got on injections two months ago and I feel great. You should have your blood work checked
It's PE strictly related to uglier women. Not ED. I'd guess my T is pretty high given my current physique even though i haven't worked out in a few months.
 
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