"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
I guess your penis is really attracted to the feel of a few more lbs. I guess I can understand a chubby lady, by why a chubby and unattractive lady?
 

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Could it be you dont give a ****? like if its an ogre you dont care and dont feel the need to last`?
 

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Could it be you dont give a ****? like if its an ogre you dont care and dont feel the need to last`?
I dont know, it feels like with uglier women, i get more anxiety since i get kind of disgusted at myself, with pretty girls i get more into the small details of sex, like smells, her appearence, noises, things like that.
 

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Could be psychological.You want attractive women to think you can bang them for hours so you last longer. The complete opposite with unattractive women, orgasm as fast you can, you could care less if they think you are a one minute man. By orgasming so quickly, your body is telling you to hurry up and get these fatties out of here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Could be psychological.You want attractive women to think you can bang them for hours so you last longer. The complete opposite with unattractive women, orgasm as fast you can, you could care less if they think you are a one minute man. By orgasming so quickly, your body is telling you to hurry up and get these fatties out of here.
Probably, i usually dont even try a second attempt cause the post ejaculatory regret and disgust is so big.
 

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I dont know, it feels like with uglier women, i get more anxiety since i get kind of disgusted at myself, with pretty girls i get more into the small details of sex, like smells, her appearence, noises, things like that.
Maybe you come faster exactly because you're disgusted? You're doing something you shouldn't do, it's dirtier.
 

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Same. It goes beyond unattractive girls. Girls that have low IL seem to last average.

It’s not studied, but I reckon it has something to do with feromones.

Bottom line, nothing wrong with you.
 

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The great part is that you can completely control when or if you bust a nut. I may even argue that it is 90% mental.

You have to train yourself to last longer,and there certainly are ways.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm noticing a strange trend, last week i had sex with a cutie and lasted nearly an hour, today i banged an overweight girl, and came in 0.5 seconds, obviously that got me thinking, and i realized that i seem to get pre ejac only with unnatractive women, i cannot remember any good looking girl that i had PE, is anyone else like this?
Not sure if it’s been sent already. But this could be a low to Testosterone issue. PE was not one of my issues but it is definitely a symptom for low T. I got on injections two months ago and I feel great. You should have your blood work checked
 

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Not sure if it’s been sent already. But this could be a low to Testosterone issue. PE was not one of my issues but it is definitely a symptom for low T. I got on injections two months ago and I feel great. You should have your blood work checked
It's PE strictly related to uglier women. Not ED. I'd guess my T is pretty high given my current physique even though i haven't worked out in a few months.
 
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