She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I guess your penis is really attracted to the feel of a few more lbs. I guess I can understand a chubby lady, by why a chubby and unattractive lady?
I dont know, it feels like with uglier women, i get more anxiety since i get kind of disgusted at myself, with pretty girls i get more into the small details of sex, like smells, her appearence, noises, things like that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Probably, i usually dont even try a second attempt cause the post ejaculatory regret and disgust is so big.
Maybe you come faster exactly because you're disgusted? You're doing something you shouldn't do, it's dirtier.
I think its more of a panic or anxiety mini attack.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not sure if it’s been sent already. But this could be a low to Testosterone issue. PE was not one of my issues but it is definitely a symptom for low T. I got on injections two months ago and I feel great. You should have your blood work checked
It's PE strictly related to uglier women. Not ED. I'd guess my T is pretty high given my current physique even though i haven't worked out in a few months.
