"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually I am ok with dealing with situations such as this, but yesterday something happened, which I am a little confused over.

Late at night, a friend IMed me inviting me to her house to a party. She said "S" wanted me there. "S" is my ex. Earlier that day, her and I had been talking on AIM and she was laughing at all my little jokes (well, if "lol" and "hahahaha" counts as real laughing). But when I got to the party, she payed very little attention to me (though, in all fairness, I payed very little attention to her). Now, I had just decided to stop taking my medication, so I was acting really jittery and nervous, so it may have been in my head. Then later, when we were sitting at the table and talking to other people, she woud occasionally move her legs, causing her feet to touch mine. Trying to show confidence, I did not move my legs away. Instead, I just left them there. In turn, she left hers there. This continued throughout the evening, and might suggest some very minor kino.


I am generally asking if her behavior suggested that she was interested, disinterested, or neutral.
 

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Dont sugar coat it, we're not youre mommy. You like her and want her back...am i right? If so, attract her and take care of business.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Dont sugar coat it, we're not youre mommy. You like her and want her back...am i right? If so, attract her and take care of business.
Hmm, I didn't sugar coat it. Of course I want her back, or else I wouldn't care either way if she was interested.
 

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HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

I could give you more, but it would all by my inferences.

She likes you.

yes she likes you.

Her/your friend knows it too.

this is crap, why am I even responding?

The footsies is good, but you did nothing, which is why oakraiderz called you out, you don't like her enough if you won't initiate any of the kino and attention.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

...ok, owned again...right
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

I could give you more, but it would all by my inferences.

She likes you.

yes she likes you.

Her/your friend knows it too.

this is crap, why am I even responding?

The footsies is good, but you did nothing, which is why oakraiderz called you out, you don't like her enough if you won't initiate any of the kino and attention.
Thanks. I didn't specify though, that, at the party, she barely spoke to me, and was usually faced away from me. When we did speak, she didn't seem to be excited or anything.

That may just have been the fact that it is awkward to be around an ex. Who knows.
 
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